Not sure why this is racist? It’s a preference or a sexual attraction. He even said ‘sorry’.
If he’d said no [enrer racist term here] I’d be in agreement.
saying sorry doesn’t make it less racist. it tries to apologize for it. i’d believe in racist “personal preferences” if we didn’t live in a racist society and if gay men, like most other social groups, didn’t think white people were the best (looking, educated, whatever).
I know this argument goes on and on, but racist society or not, I don’t see why he is obligated to be “into” guys from other races/ethnic groups. Being attracted to white men is not the same thing as being repelled by nonwhite men. There’s no implication that white people are the best, just that he’s hot for white guys.
The fact that somebody can be “only into white” seems a bit closed minded, but not douchey. His “successful e commerce owner” makes me want to say “…Ok do you want a cookie?” lol but still altogether i vote this guy a NON douche, he shouldn’t be on this site.
Blech, there’s nothing I can’t stand more than a “discrete” male. What are you, ashamed of your attraction to males? Well then leave openly gay males the hell alone, and save us all some headaches.
The racial preference argument is just as strong as our gay argument. If we didn’t have a preference to certain characteristics solely belonging to a certain race, then why do we have a preference for men
At all?
JGay, don’t be a simpleton. What you are basically saying is that racial preferences and homosexuality are simply a matter of individual taste. We don’t exist in a vacuum and our tastes, desires, and the like aren’t simply things we put on like a pair of socks. They are cultural. The tricky part is how we come to view preferences as natural and personal rather than as the effects of our cultural upbringing, larger societal mores, and many deeply engrained prejudices. Have you stopped to ask yourself why SO MANY people have the same “preferences”? What happens when you scratch the surface of “no chocolate/no rice, sorry just a preference”? Why don’t people want to be with men of color? Well, because they don’t find them attractive? Why don’t they find them attractive? I mean, come on, it’s not like all Blacks, Latinos, or Asians come in one shape or size, right? But when someone says no to entire an group, he’s saying I don’t find ANY of you attractive, because you’re all the same. This idea, that all members of a racial group are the same, is by definition racist because it fails to recognize the incredible diversity within racial groupings.
To those bitching about this guy being “racist” he’s not into people of other ethnic background sexually. So what. You can’t change that. Posting this online only saves him and other guys time.
Queerprof for President; seriously. I’m so over justifying these racist preferences. Variety is awesome. Don’t shun yourself from it because you don’t know what you are missing.
Damn. This is the 2nd guy I hooked up with from grindr who turned out to be a male prostitute. What’s going on in Chicago? Are there all the good-looking guys in this city hookers?
People don’t realize that’s the definition of sexual racism. My question isn’t why he’s been only attracted to white guys. The real question is would you be open to the idea of another race. Because when you post something like that you aren’t saying “sorry only white,” you’re saying “sorry only want to be open to only white”. Because he’s not going to be attracted to all white guys and still has to turn guys down. It goes a lot deeper than that when you post something like.sorry because of your race i am not interested is just racist. I will never understand it really.
I’d say Jguy has a bit of a point…but more importantly, I’d like to say any 20-somethin who says their there own business owner in “e-commerce” likely either now or soon will be living w mommy and daddy
So prostitution now is being called e-commerce? New name, same old profession… And thumbs up to queerproof, this “sexual preference” shit is just veiled racism, it is all based in what we have been culturally exposed to.
Variety is the spice of life. If you date people of other ethnic groups you will learn a lot about different cultural groups.
Plus, I think if you limit yourself by race in terms of dating, you will lesson your chances to find the right person, because you are limiting the people who are available to you.
He’s not a douche, nor is he a racist.
So what if he’s only into other bi, masculine, fit, polite white men?
That’s his(smart)choice, and he’s not asking for your approval.
He’s living his life.
Live yours, if you have the looks and social skills…
Not sure why this is racist? It’s a preference or a sexual attraction. He even said ‘sorry’.
If he’d said no [enrer racist term here] I’d be in agreement.
I agree with Danny – it’s just a sexual attraction, a personal preference…
Yep, that’s just a sexual attraction, this guy’s pic should be deleted from this website ! He ‘s even saying “sorry”, for christ sake !
nothing douchey about this profile, he’s just letting people know what he’s into in a polite way.
If I ran across his profile, I’d politely keep moving as politely requested.
saying sorry doesn’t make it less racist. it tries to apologize for it. i’d believe in racist “personal preferences” if we didn’t live in a racist society and if gay men, like most other social groups, didn’t think white people were the best (looking, educated, whatever).
I know this argument goes on and on, but racist society or not, I don’t see why he is obligated to be “into” guys from other races/ethnic groups. Being attracted to white men is not the same thing as being repelled by nonwhite men. There’s no implication that white people are the best, just that he’s hot for white guys.
The fact that somebody can be “only into white” seems a bit closed minded, but not douchey. His “successful e commerce owner” makes me want to say “…Ok do you want a cookie?” lol but still altogether i vote this guy a NON douche, he shouldn’t be on this site.
Blech, there’s nothing I can’t stand more than a “discrete” male. What are you, ashamed of your attraction to males? Well then leave openly gay males the hell alone, and save us all some headaches.
The racial preference argument is just as strong as our gay argument. If we didn’t have a preference to certain characteristics solely belonging to a certain race, then why do we have a preference for men
At all?
JGay, don’t be a simpleton. What you are basically saying is that racial preferences and homosexuality are simply a matter of individual taste. We don’t exist in a vacuum and our tastes, desires, and the like aren’t simply things we put on like a pair of socks. They are cultural. The tricky part is how we come to view preferences as natural and personal rather than as the effects of our cultural upbringing, larger societal mores, and many deeply engrained prejudices. Have you stopped to ask yourself why SO MANY people have the same “preferences”? What happens when you scratch the surface of “no chocolate/no rice, sorry just a preference”? Why don’t people want to be with men of color? Well, because they don’t find them attractive? Why don’t they find them attractive? I mean, come on, it’s not like all Blacks, Latinos, or Asians come in one shape or size, right? But when someone says no to entire an group, he’s saying I don’t find ANY of you attractive, because you’re all the same. This idea, that all members of a racial group are the same, is by definition racist because it fails to recognize the incredible diversity within racial groupings.
To those bitching about this guy being “racist” he’s not into people of other ethnic background sexually. So what. You can’t change that. Posting this online only saves him and other guys time.
Queerprof for President; seriously. I’m so over justifying these racist preferences. Variety is awesome. Don’t shun yourself from it because you don’t know what you are missing.
Here is his massage page
http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/chicagomuscle03.shtml
Damn. This is the 2nd guy I hooked up with from grindr who turned out to be a male prostitute. What’s going on in Chicago? Are there all the good-looking guys in this city hookers?
People don’t realize that’s the definition of sexual racism. My question isn’t why he’s been only attracted to white guys. The real question is would you be open to the idea of another race. Because when you post something like that you aren’t saying “sorry only white,” you’re saying “sorry only want to be open to only white”. Because he’s not going to be attracted to all white guys and still has to turn guys down. It goes a lot deeper than that when you post something like.sorry because of your race i am not interested is just racist. I will never understand it really.
I’d say Jguy has a bit of a point…but more importantly, I’d like to say any 20-somethin who says their there own business owner in “e-commerce” likely either now or soon will be living w mommy and daddy
So prostitution now is being called e-commerce? New name, same old profession… And thumbs up to queerproof, this “sexual preference” shit is just veiled racism, it is all based in what we have been culturally exposed to.
Variety is the spice of life. If you date people of other ethnic groups you will learn a lot about different cultural groups.
Plus, I think if you limit yourself by race in terms of dating, you will lesson your chances to find the right person, because you are limiting the people who are available to you.
Queerprof, if you don’t run for president please write a book. Very eloquently put, and our world needs to hear your words.
He’s not a douche, nor is he a racist.
So what if he’s only into other bi, masculine, fit, polite white men?
That’s his(smart)choice, and he’s not asking for your approval.
He’s living his life.
Live yours, if you have the looks and social skills…