Whether you like the term “straight acting” or not, it’s a shorthand for “conventionally masculine enough to be mistaken for straight and therefore able to enjoy straight privilege.” Guys like that tend to be attracted to other guys like that. And being conventionally masculine makes them highly desirable by all gay men, not just other conventionally masculine men. Why? Because gay men are attracted to masculinity. Attraction to femininity is a straight man’s attraction. And when a conventionally masculine man is getting attention from all types of gay men, masculine and feminine, he needs to state he is looking for only those who are conventionally masculine. It doesn’t make him a douche. It means he gets so much attention that he needs to put some kind of filter in place. And yes, that can be done respectfully.
Unless I see him near a vag, I don’t believe he’s “straight acting”.
Strictly ballroom?
I’m going to need a pic of that face.
Strictly bottom…
He looks black in that photo. Heavy tanner?
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Except when I’m sucking cock.
How straight acting does he look with my cock down his throat?
Wait.. Why is he a douche?
how could he be a str8actin? look at his nails lol
Dear gay men who value masculinity over femininity: The rest of us value intelligence over you.
Nobody owes you a guilt fuck.
Whether you like the term “straight acting” or not, it’s a shorthand for “conventionally masculine enough to be mistaken for straight and therefore able to enjoy straight privilege.” Guys like that tend to be attracted to other guys like that. And being conventionally masculine makes them highly desirable by all gay men, not just other conventionally masculine men. Why? Because gay men are attracted to masculinity. Attraction to femininity is a straight man’s attraction. And when a conventionally masculine man is getting attention from all types of gay men, masculine and feminine, he needs to state he is looking for only those who are conventionally masculine. It doesn’t make him a douche. It means he gets so much attention that he needs to put some kind of filter in place. And yes, that can be done respectfully.
great post David, well put.
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