Its ok for one’s opinion to be valid. BUT: calling people ugly is a terrible thing to do. The longest term relationship i had (where i was truly happy, but had to break it off because of relocation for work) was when i ‘blinded’ myself and got to know the guy. It sounds like a cliche – but it is true, that i was MORE physically attracted to him, once i fell in love with his personality.
The problem with Adam’s (and the ^^^ Grindr DB’s) assessment of “ugly guys” is, they automatically assume that everyone judges “ugly” in the same manner. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been fickly chastised for expressing that someone is unattractively not my type; when, in contrast, my ‘chastisers” were all hyped about how handsome and good-looking Mr. Someone is. See? Different eyes do see different things.
And, to sadly poison Adam’s party even more, no matter our body types, some people simply aren’t into casual sex. My own body has lived through different stages of healthy and unhealthy; from fat to skinny to fit to muscularly buff. Sometimes I shave. Other times, I grow out the Neanderthal scruff. I wasn’t always feeling hookups; regardless of what appearance I had or stage my body was.
(On a slight tangent, it might behoove Adam and Mr. Grindr DB to note that casual sex for fat people is available for like-minded fat people. I bring up fat, as I assume this would be a typical factor in their being judged as ‘ugly’. Even I and my fit, muscular self had been accused by at least a few said-fat guys for my sexual flirtation with them. See? Even some of them (fat guys) don’t like casual sex, and it was wrong of me to assume that just because I was fit and hot it automatically meant they’d go for me.)
I kind of agree with him. What are you in Grindr for?
I completely agree with him, but how do we know he isn’t ugly?
this coming from someone so ugly they can’t show their own face
a blurry torso pix. No right to judge. Next.
There’s something about morons who think bitchiness is witty or attractive that just cracks me up!
I guess he’s right. I’m ugly and not looking for hook-ups. Now I feel bad.
Well…he’s kind of right…
ugly is subjective, his attitude is ugly for sure
Its ok for one’s opinion to be valid. BUT: calling people ugly is a terrible thing to do. The longest term relationship i had (where i was truly happy, but had to break it off because of relocation for work) was when i ‘blinded’ myself and got to know the guy. It sounds like a cliche – but it is true, that i was MORE physically attracted to him, once i fell in love with his personality.
Thanks for the book-length post with your life story in it, DBOG. No one cares!
He’s right, and your responses…lol…looks like he really hit some pretty raw nerves!
I should add, I haven’t been bred since October 2016 and that was in a washroom!
LOL
Thanks for proving, yet again, that my posts’ truths have burned you to the point that you, inadvertently, respond just as I said you would!:)
The problem with Adam’s (and the ^^^ Grindr DB’s) assessment of “ugly guys” is, they automatically assume that everyone judges “ugly” in the same manner. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been fickly chastised for expressing that someone is unattractively not my type; when, in contrast, my ‘chastisers” were all hyped about how handsome and good-looking Mr. Someone is. See? Different eyes do see different things.
And, to sadly poison Adam’s party even more, no matter our body types, some people simply aren’t into casual sex. My own body has lived through different stages of healthy and unhealthy; from fat to skinny to fit to muscularly buff. Sometimes I shave. Other times, I grow out the Neanderthal scruff. I wasn’t always feeling hookups; regardless of what appearance I had or stage my body was.
(On a slight tangent, it might behoove Adam and Mr. Grindr DB to note that casual sex for fat people is available for like-minded fat people. I bring up fat, as I assume this would be a typical factor in their being judged as ‘ugly’. Even I and my fit, muscular self had been accused by at least a few said-fat guys for my sexual flirtation with them. See? Even some of them (fat guys) don’t like casual sex, and it was wrong of me to assume that just because I was fit and hot it automatically meant they’d go for me.)