Ageism? So he’s not into fucking 70 yr olds. Racism? He doesn’t get turned on by black dudes? HOW IN THE FUCK IS THIS EVEN SERIOUS? PEOPLE HAVE PREFERENCES, JESUS FUCKING CHRIST.
Totally agree DJ and Dr Lulz. Its like this, u only get so many characters. Its just pragmatic to say want u dont want sometimes. If u order a burger which would u say “everything but onions” or would you say “mayo, mustard, ketchup, lettuce, tomatoes, pickles,bacon, cheese”?
From Psychology Today.com:
Microaggressions in Everyday Life: A new view on racism, sexism, and heterosexism. by Derald Wing Sue, Ph.D., and David Rivera, M.S.
Here’s a very salient part of the article, I think:
Classifying Microaggressions
In my book, Racial Microaggressions in Everyday Life: Race, Gender and Sexual Orientation (John Wiley & Sons, 2010), I summarize research conducted at Teachers College, Columbia University which led us to propose a classification of racial microaggressions. Three types of current racial transgressions were described:
• Microassaults: Conscious and intentional discriminatory actions: using racial epithets, displaying White supremacist symbols – swastikas, or preventing one’s son or daughter from dating outside of their race.
• Microinsults: Verbal, nonverbal, and environmental communications that subtly convey rudeness and insensitivity that demean a person’s racial heritage or identity. An example is an employee who asks a co-worker of color how he/she got his/her job, implying he/she may have landed it through an affirmative action or quota system.
• Microinvalidations: Communications that subtly exclude negate or nullify the thoughts, feelings or experiential reality of a person of color. For instance, White people often ask Latinos where they were born, conveying the message that they are perpetual foreigners in their own land.
Our research suggests that microinsults and microinvalidiations are potentially more harmful because of their invisibility, which puts people of color in a psychological bind: While people of color may feel insulted, they are often uncertain why, and perpetrators are unaware that anything has happened and are not aware they have been offensive. For people of color, they are caught in a Catch-22. If they question the perpetrator, as in the case of the flight attendant, denials are likely to follow. Indeed, they may be labeled “oversensitive” or even “paranoid.” If they choose not to confront perpetrators, the turmoil stews and percolates in the psyche of the person taking a huge emotional toll. In other words, they are damned if they do and damned if they don’t.
Note that the denials by perpetrators are usually not conscious attempts to deceive; they honestly believe they have done no wrong. Microaggressions hold their power because they are invisible, and therefore they don’t allow Whites to see that their actions and attitudes may be discriminatory. Therein lays the dilemma. The person of color is left to question what actually happened. The result is confusion, anger and an overall draining of energy.
Hey Azul since u love a link. EVERY SINGLE EXAMPLE (and its been an exhaustive list) refers to racism in the public sector. In fact in ur UN c&p it specifically says areas of PUBLIC life. Your links prove MY point. Hookups are a private affair. I cant defend cettain derogatory terms (and if u check, i never have) but to exclude races in search for sex or romance isnt related to ANYTHING you’ve posted. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
There’s been so many other posters here who says that racial preference is racist (guys like Offshore, Yuck, Martin, Tripes, etc) and yet you keep engaging with me.
If you really wanna fight for a cause go argue with them as well.
I already gave a list at what the issues at hand – it’s not just the racial preference things but the way it’s being expressed (which being express in public), the denial and the insults that happen on this site which according to this psychologist are racial microaggressions (microinsults and microinvalidations).
Stop twisting my words – based on this article that it might be possible that you do not think you are in your own acts of racial microaggressions but being as unreasonable as you have not to even consider my arguments just shows what a bitch you are.
My problem AGAIN is that your arguing a similar but not THE SAME point. Otherwise known as a straw man. And those other people havent gotten agro with me.
You’ve said u were done with me several times. I wish u were. U’ve set urself up with quite the convemient witch hunt logic. If I deny anything that’s just part of my racism huh? Now I dare u to c&p ANYTHING from a legitimate source that says expressing a racial preference for sex and/or romance qualifies as racism.
Btw, I know the real reason u argue a point that’s ridiculous is just to rope me into communicating with u. U love my blond/blue all american good looks.
And i love that YOUR typos are MY fault! Who knew white priviledge could reach around the world and cause ur keyboard to malfunction. It must be very hard for u to come up with new ways to feel victimized in an increasingly tolerant world 🙁 a tear.
“shitty photo” should have been one of the tags under this. Its interesting how the gay community votes almost exclusively democratic but at the same time how fucking racist it is. Its also the elephant in the living room NO ONE wants to talk about. I don’t think even Advocate (which I hate, btw) will even touch that topic.
Lacking sexual attraction to black people isn’t racism. People have a right to choose who they sleep with wether you like it or not. If he isn’t attracted then he isn’t attracted.
Racism is, when people of certain ethnicity are denied a basic rights; you are actually being racist to him (white guy) by demanding him to have sex with other ethnicity.
P.s. I am Genocide Historian; Racism is my specialty (85 page thesis on it).
I’m only interested in sex with white men. And not delicate men.
Just blokes. I have sex with nonwhites and delicate men.
Truth be told, I don’t enjoy it a great deal.
You guys that are into all the rainbows and twink to elderly…. Stick thin to bed ridden obesity… More power to you. But get the fuck out of my bedroom and get over it.
I don’t hate other races. I don’t hate delicate guys. That’s just fuckin absurd.
Is it douchey? Fuck no.
Is being gay or straight douche? Hell no. It’s how we are wired.
Some of the guys on here might be racists. Don’t presume they all are.
Stop talking like a hetro talking about gays… Sexuality isn’t a choice.
I choose to sleep with guys out of attraction. That’s a choice.
But it’s pretty fucking pointless if I can’t get a hardon for what’s in front of me.
P.s. I am Genocide Historian; Racism is my specialty (85 page thesis on it). You must be fun at parties.
At least he didn’t say ‘ no niggas’ and said sorry so i suppose that’s ok!
lol at calling this racism. This site seems to be a bit of a joke….i prefer black guys over white guys but im not averse to hooking up with a white person. That doesnt make me a racist it just means i have a sexual preference.
I don’t understand. Since when did “preference” or “attraction” become racist? If this bloke is putting up and advert on this site, he wants to make sure he gets what he wants. If he’s not into blacks , fat blokes or old blokes, so what? And he does say “sorry”…
How is this guy a douche? He’s not. He has standards.
If they don’t include you, get over it.
He’s not obligated to sleep with you…or anyone, just to satisfy your phony SJW bs.
Ageism? So he’s not into fucking 70 yr olds. Racism? He doesn’t get turned on by black dudes? HOW IN THE FUCK IS THIS EVEN SERIOUS? PEOPLE HAVE PREFERENCES, JESUS FUCKING CHRIST.
But why, out of all things a person can put on there, would someone put what he’s NOT into? Seems like he has a real problem. Seems like you do, too.
Totally agree DJ and Dr Lulz. Its like this, u only get so many characters. Its just pragmatic to say want u dont want sometimes. If u order a burger which would u say “everything but onions” or would you say “mayo, mustard, ketchup, lettuce, tomatoes, pickles,bacon, cheese”?
… at least he said sorry.
FOr someone who is picky, he sure has a picture that doesn’t tell us very much.
Has anyone here heard of racial microaggression?
Some info here:
From Psychology Today.com:
Microaggressions in Everyday Life: A new view on racism, sexism, and heterosexism. by Derald Wing Sue, Ph.D., and David Rivera, M.S.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/microaggressions-in-everyday-life/201010/racial-microaggressions-in-everyday-life
Here’s a very salient part of the article, I think:
Classifying Microaggressions
In my book, Racial Microaggressions in Everyday Life: Race, Gender and Sexual Orientation (John Wiley & Sons, 2010), I summarize research conducted at Teachers College, Columbia University which led us to propose a classification of racial microaggressions. Three types of current racial transgressions were described:
• Microassaults: Conscious and intentional discriminatory actions: using racial epithets, displaying White supremacist symbols – swastikas, or preventing one’s son or daughter from dating outside of their race.
• Microinsults: Verbal, nonverbal, and environmental communications that subtly convey rudeness and insensitivity that demean a person’s racial heritage or identity. An example is an employee who asks a co-worker of color how he/she got his/her job, implying he/she may have landed it through an affirmative action or quota system.
• Microinvalidations: Communications that subtly exclude negate or nullify the thoughts, feelings or experiential reality of a person of color. For instance, White people often ask Latinos where they were born, conveying the message that they are perpetual foreigners in their own land.
Our research suggests that microinsults and microinvalidiations are potentially more harmful because of their invisibility, which puts people of color in a psychological bind: While people of color may feel insulted, they are often uncertain why, and perpetrators are unaware that anything has happened and are not aware they have been offensive. For people of color, they are caught in a Catch-22. If they question the perpetrator, as in the case of the flight attendant, denials are likely to follow. Indeed, they may be labeled “oversensitive” or even “paranoid.” If they choose not to confront perpetrators, the turmoil stews and percolates in the psyche of the person taking a huge emotional toll. In other words, they are damned if they do and damned if they don’t.
Note that the denials by perpetrators are usually not conscious attempts to deceive; they honestly believe they have done no wrong. Microaggressions hold their power because they are invisible, and therefore they don’t allow Whites to see that their actions and attitudes may be discriminatory. Therein lays the dilemma. The person of color is left to question what actually happened. The result is confusion, anger and an overall draining of energy.
Hey Azul since u love a link. EVERY SINGLE EXAMPLE (and its been an exhaustive list) refers to racism in the public sector. In fact in ur UN c&p it specifically says areas of PUBLIC life. Your links prove MY point. Hookups are a private affair. I cant defend cettain derogatory terms (and if u check, i never have) but to exclude races in search for sex or romance isnt related to ANYTHING you’ve posted.
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
White racist douches commenting here always defend d-bags like him. “heehgn, it’s only a ‘preference,'” they whine. ugh, spare me.
Dude, what’s your problem eh?
There’s been so many other posters here who says that racial preference is racist (guys like Offshore, Yuck, Martin, Tripes, etc) and yet you keep engaging with me.
If you really wanna fight for a cause go argue with them as well.
I already gave a list at what the issues at hand – it’s not just the racial preference things but the way it’s being expressed (which being express in public), the denial and the insults that happen on this site which according to this psychologist are racial microaggressions (microinsults and microinvalidations).
Stop twisting my words – based on this article that it might be possible that you do not think you are in your own acts of racial microaggressions but being as unreasonable as you have not to even consider my arguments just shows what a bitch you are.
I’m done with you.
Ha – my message is ridden with typos. Just proves how sick I am of trying to reason with assholes like Andy.
Sigh. I guess it’s true – haters will hate. Especially hateful are irrational ignorant haters.
My problem AGAIN is that your arguing a similar but not THE SAME point. Otherwise known as a straw man. And those other people havent gotten agro with me.
You’ve said u were done with me several times. I wish u were. U’ve set urself up with quite the convemient witch hunt logic. If I deny anything that’s just part of my racism huh? Now I dare u to c&p ANYTHING from a legitimate source that says expressing a racial preference for sex and/or romance qualifies as racism.
Btw, I know the real reason u argue a point that’s ridiculous is just to rope me into communicating with u. U love my blond/blue all american good looks.
And i love that YOUR typos are MY fault! Who knew white priviledge could reach around the world and cause ur keyboard to malfunction. It must be very hard for u to come up with new ways to feel victimized in an increasingly tolerant world 🙁 a tear.
And yet you keep responding…
You must have a hard-on for me. Andy, you’re one sick puppy…
Haha. Some people….
Thanks for the link Azul.
“shitty photo” should have been one of the tags under this. Its interesting how the gay community votes almost exclusively democratic but at the same time how fucking racist it is. Its also the elephant in the living room NO ONE wants to talk about. I don’t think even Advocate (which I hate, btw) will even touch that topic.
Lacking sexual attraction to black people isn’t racism. People have a right to choose who they sleep with wether you like it or not. If he isn’t attracted then he isn’t attracted.
Racism is, when people of certain ethnicity are denied a basic rights; you are actually being racist to him (white guy) by demanding him to have sex with other ethnicity.
P.s. I am Genocide Historian; Racism is my specialty (85 page thesis on it).
I’m only interested in sex with white men. And not delicate men.
Just blokes. I have sex with nonwhites and delicate men.
Truth be told, I don’t enjoy it a great deal.
You guys that are into all the rainbows and twink to elderly…. Stick thin to bed ridden obesity… More power to you. But get the fuck out of my bedroom and get over it.
I don’t hate other races. I don’t hate delicate guys. That’s just fuckin absurd.
Is it douchey? Fuck no.
Is being gay or straight douche? Hell no. It’s how we are wired.
Some of the guys on here might be racists. Don’t presume they all are.
Stop talking like a hetro talking about gays… Sexuality isn’t a choice.
I choose to sleep with guys out of attraction. That’s a choice.
But it’s pretty fucking pointless if I can’t get a hardon for what’s in front of me.
^^. Just a point of view.
And the guys pic looks fine.
P.s. I am Genocide Historian; Racism is my specialty (85 page thesis on it). You must be fun at parties.
At least he didn’t say ‘ no niggas’ and said sorry so i suppose that’s ok!
No nigga
lol at calling this racism. This site seems to be a bit of a joke….i prefer black guys over white guys but im not averse to hooking up with a white person. That doesnt make me a racist it just means i have a sexual preference.
Sour grapes x 1000 round here…..
I don’t understand. Since when did “preference” or “attraction” become racist? If this bloke is putting up and advert on this site, he wants to make sure he gets what he wants. If he’s not into blacks , fat blokes or old blokes, so what? And he does say “sorry”…
How is this guy a douche? He’s not. He has standards.
If they don’t include you, get over it.
He’s not obligated to sleep with you…or anyone, just to satisfy your phony SJW bs.