Where’s the racism? He’s just not attracted to Asian dudes, as they don’t fit his height and build requirements. He’s probably not into bi black men like me, either, but, that’s HIS right.
He’s just tired of being called a”racist”, because he’s clear about his preferences.
Besides, if you really cared about “diversity”, you’d ask every gay magazine why, considering all of the famous people of color who’ve come out over the past 36 months, have virtually NONE of them appeared on the covers of those magazines.
Try that. That’s real.
“Besides, if you really cared about “diversityâ€, you’d ask every gay magazine why, considering all of the famous people of color who’ve come out over the past 36 months, have virtually NONE of them appeared on the covers of those magazines.”
The problem is Asians are diverse -I live there and Korean, Mongolian, Thai, Malaysian, etc lots of differences! It’s ignorance to generalise them like this! Adam you are full of self hate and indignation I hope you are getting the help u need
LOL
I’m not “full of self-hate”. Quite the opposite, really, which is why, unlike you, I don’t need the sexual validation of total strangers in order to feel good about myself. If I’m not what a guy(or girl)is looking for, so, what? I’m happy that he’s honest about what he does want, sparing both of us a lot of unnecessarily awkward time, which could be better spent on someone I do like.
Get it?
@Adam
I’m sure you’ve already heard the “ice cream” counter-response: If you don’t like the flavor of strawberry ice cream, that’s not a preference; that’s a full-on disfavor/disdain for the flavor. Preference is enjoying the flavors but having a mere leaning towards a particular flavor.
Micro-insults as that veiled under “preference” has become worn out by now. I think it’s time that people like him stop using this card and for people like you stop becoming apologists for him.
It’s his “right” to be a racist. And, it’s our right to brand him a douhebag for it.
LOL
And it’s my right to point out that he’s not a racist because he’s not attracted to Asian men, as if you actually care.
No matter what’s in his profile, you’d bitch about it, because he’s out of your league.
Man-up and get over it, already, or, at the very least, join a gym.:)
Further, it’s not your place to tell him or anyone what “it’s time for”. You have no say in anyone’s preferences, especially the ones that don’t include you. Your presumptuous arrogance is as profound as your bitterness at being rejected.lol
LOL
The only delusion here is your belief that you, somehow, have the right to dictate the other people’s preferences.
Reality check:You don’t.
Perhaps you’re hoping that, if someone actually allows to to dictate their preferences, they might prefer…you(for once).
The hoop through which you guys propel yourselves, just to get laid…instead of just becoming the kind of hot, masculine you want to bed, so they’ll seek you out.
I guess that the latter is too much like common sense, eh?
The problem is Asia is a massive continent. You have Philippine guys who look Latino – very cute Thai and indo men- Indian guys wuth blue or green eyes… Korean and Japanese with killer cheekbones and tall frames! Not knowing this makes you narrow minded rather than open minded.
I’m married to a Latino guy but I csn appreciate attractive guys from all over – even square state black guys Adam!
I think no Asians is just a bit sad. ( I’m a green eyed pale scot)
I’m still trying to understand why so many men, from so many different walks of life, reject Asian men. All of my intimate moments with them have been wonderful. Granted, I was always the top, but, still, what’s up?
He’s probably tried being Mr. Nice Guy, but, as everyone knows, that tack doesn’t always work, especially with Asians(or anyone else)who refuse to take rejection. After a while, the tactful mask falls and he’s becomes blunt about who he wants. Besides, NONE of you guys are in ANY position to demand tactfulness from an online poster.LOL
You may now proceed to proving my point in 5, 4, 3…
@Adam
“AC, you really are terribly slow.
Take your time…:)”
No, Adam, I’m really not.
Case in point: the media’s Eurocentric standards is obviously the reason why sexy gay men of color who came out don’t appear in the front cover of gay magazines.
Have you figured that out throughout the years?
@Adam
“The only delusion here is your belief that you, somehow, have the right to dictate the other people’s preferences.”
Not even close, Adam.
See that? You obviously missed the entire point of what I was trying to tell you.
I wasn’t “dictating” what people’s preference SHOULD be; just explaining why excluding an entire race is not a “preference”.
Preference is having a favorite ice cream but enjoying all kinds of ice cream in general. Excluding an entire race is bigotry, because you’ve dismissed
1 – the differences in qualities attributes that are found in individuals of that race, and
2 – your own opportunity to learn about said individuals, and what they may have to offer you, because of nothing more than their race.
Do you get it or not? Because we’re tired of having to explain it to you like you were infant Ferdinand the Bull.
Where’s the racism? He’s just not attracted to Asian dudes, as they don’t fit his height and build requirements. He’s probably not into bi black men like me, either, but, that’s HIS right.
He’s just tired of being called a”racist”, because he’s clear about his preferences.
Besides, if you really cared about “diversity”, you’d ask every gay magazine why, considering all of the famous people of color who’ve come out over the past 36 months, have virtually NONE of them appeared on the covers of those magazines.
Try that. That’s real.
“Besides, if you really cared about “diversityâ€, you’d ask every gay magazine why, considering all of the famous people of color who’ve come out over the past 36 months, have virtually NONE of them appeared on the covers of those magazines.”
Mayhaps due to racism, Bubba?
LOL
AC, you really are terribly slow.
Take your time…:)
The problem is Asians are diverse -I live there and Korean, Mongolian, Thai, Malaysian, etc lots of differences! It’s ignorance to generalise them like this! Adam you are full of self hate and indignation I hope you are getting the help u need
LOL
I’m not “full of self-hate”. Quite the opposite, really, which is why, unlike you, I don’t need the sexual validation of total strangers in order to feel good about myself. If I’m not what a guy(or girl)is looking for, so, what? I’m happy that he’s honest about what he does want, sparing both of us a lot of unnecessarily awkward time, which could be better spent on someone I do like.
Get it?
Probably not…
“Asians leave me alone” … The salt is real.
“No [race]!” in your profile makes you racist. Stop defending thes assholes.
@Adam
I’m sure you’ve already heard the “ice cream” counter-response: If you don’t like the flavor of strawberry ice cream, that’s not a preference; that’s a full-on disfavor/disdain for the flavor. Preference is enjoying the flavors but having a mere leaning towards a particular flavor.
Micro-insults as that veiled under “preference” has become worn out by now. I think it’s time that people like him stop using this card and for people like you stop becoming apologists for him.
It’s his “right” to be a racist. And, it’s our right to brand him a douhebag for it.
LOL
And it’s my right to point out that he’s not a racist because he’s not attracted to Asian men, as if you actually care.
No matter what’s in his profile, you’d bitch about it, because he’s out of your league.
Man-up and get over it, already, or, at the very least, join a gym.:)
Further, it’s not your place to tell him or anyone what “it’s time for”. You have no say in anyone’s preferences, especially the ones that don’t include you. Your presumptuous arrogance is as profound as your bitterness at being rejected.lol
I’m beginning to wonder if something happened during your younger years to have caused you this delusion.
I’m guessing you have a lot of hurt within you?
LOL
The only delusion here is your belief that you, somehow, have the right to dictate the other people’s preferences.
Reality check:You don’t.
Perhaps you’re hoping that, if someone actually allows to to dictate their preferences, they might prefer…you(for once).
The hoop through which you guys propel yourselves, just to get laid…instead of just becoming the kind of hot, masculine you want to bed, so they’ll seek you out.
I guess that the latter is too much like common sense, eh?
The problem is Asia is a massive continent. You have Philippine guys who look Latino – very cute Thai and indo men- Indian guys wuth blue or green eyes… Korean and Japanese with killer cheekbones and tall frames! Not knowing this makes you narrow minded rather than open minded.
I’m married to a Latino guy but I csn appreciate attractive guys from all over – even square state black guys Adam!
I think no Asians is just a bit sad. ( I’m a green eyed pale scot)
He’s not into them. Get over it.
All of you “white knight” white guys, pretending to be the champions of diversity are hilarious.
Have you ever noticed how many Asian profiles are faceless?? Faceless gym boys…
Not a good look, is it?
How do you explain this phenomenon, gay boys?
I’m still trying to understand why so many men, from so many different walks of life, reject Asian men. All of my intimate moments with them have been wonderful. Granted, I was always the top, but, still, what’s up?
There’s other ways to state a preference. If you can’t be arsed working that out then people are gonna think you’re a racist whether you are or not.
He’s probably tried being Mr. Nice Guy, but, as everyone knows, that tack doesn’t always work, especially with Asians(or anyone else)who refuse to take rejection. After a while, the tactful mask falls and he’s becomes blunt about who he wants. Besides, NONE of you guys are in ANY position to demand tactfulness from an online poster.LOL
You may now proceed to proving my point in 5, 4, 3…
@Adam
“AC, you really are terribly slow.
Take your time…:)”
No, Adam, I’m really not.
Case in point: the media’s Eurocentric standards is obviously the reason why sexy gay men of color who came out don’t appear in the front cover of gay magazines.
Have you figured that out throughout the years?
@Adam
“The only delusion here is your belief that you, somehow, have the right to dictate the other people’s preferences.”
Not even close, Adam.
See that? You obviously missed the entire point of what I was trying to tell you.
I wasn’t “dictating” what people’s preference SHOULD be; just explaining why excluding an entire race is not a “preference”.
Preference is having a favorite ice cream but enjoying all kinds of ice cream in general. Excluding an entire race is bigotry, because you’ve dismissed
1 – the differences in qualities attributes that are found in individuals of that race, and
2 – your own opportunity to learn about said individuals, and what they may have to offer you, because of nothing more than their race.
Do you get it or not? Because we’re tired of having to explain it to you like you were infant Ferdinand the Bull.
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