26 thoughts on “No Compliments Douche”

  1. not really a douche. I hate these guys who message me on Grindr complimenting me, and when I say “thanks :-)” they go silent. same with people who say “hi”, then I say “hello”, and then don’t reply anymore. WTF is that about?

     
  2. i ton’t think he’s arrogant, i think he’s the opposite. he appears to want to engage in *real* conversation, not field compliments. He’s probably tired of guys who say “Nice pic”, and then back off because they are afraid to approach him. Not a douche.

     
  3. Allan if they compliment you and you say thanks you need to follow up with a “so how’s ur day” or a compliment urself. Just writing thanks makes the other guy think you are not interested at all, and are just being polite to them. CONVERSATION SKILLS DUDE – YOU NEED SOME!!!!

     
  4. All he’s saying is that he wants to have a modicum of talking with someone, that he doesn’t want someone to simply message him a “Hi” or “Hot Pic!”. Not particularly douchey- he just wants to weed out people who can’t manage to hold or at least start a conversation.

     
  5. I feel he contradicts him. Chat him up but he doesn’t want to be complimented. Why show off your body like that? He is giving mixed signals

     
  6. To hell with this site. Seriously. You’re not only cyber bullies, some of these photos are blatant entrapment. There’s a large group working on having this site shut down. I hope that you’re all prosecuted. Thank you – because of you crossing the line, there will be even more censorship on the Internet, yet if it means stopping you posting photos of people innocently posting dating profiles on the Net in a way that you might ridicule them, I welcome an end.

     
  7. I do think the whole “don’t say just hi” thing is stupid. What exactly do those people expect? A cover letter? From a stranger? It’s ridiculous and entitled, and it makes no sense because I bet their actual response or lack thereof has much more to do with the picture than the message.

     
  8. It reeks of a stolen picture doesn’t it?
    My mates pic has do far appeared on 3 different profiles! He just sounds a bit precious rather than a d bag
    If u want ” entertainment” try the theatre

     
  9. He’s not a douche.
    He, as others here have said, is just tired of being approached with non-coversation starters and empty “compliments”.

     
  10. He’s hot. I dated a Kiwi last year and yes, they behave like this sometimes because they don’t like people who waste their time.
    I’d do kiwis over and over again. XD

     
    1. really?ive been to nz and they are fantastic , not smug like this chap whom i suspect is actually a septic tank ( yank ). .It does reek stolen photo too…

       

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