And what I dont understand is why people are offended when someone says he is looking for a masc guy or srt8 looking guy? Should I feel offended if someone says that he is looking for fem guys only? It is just a preference
I don’t see anything wrong with saying you prefer a masculine guy either, but saying “str8 looking” or “str8 acting” implies some internalized homophobia. It’s like saying “I’m gay, but I’m one of the good ones.”
“implies so internalized homophobia”!!! That is just being hypersensitive, and why do u read so much into the “str8 acting” from my perspective it is just that, when i use it to discribe myself it dont imply that I’m better than anyone else, I don’t imply that there is something wrong with someone acting gay, and what u thing something implies or doesn’t imply then that is a reflection to ur own internal demons.
Let’s not even respond to this sam guy. I’ve worked out quickly from this site that the racists and homophobes simply don’t have the requisite intelligence to understand why they are such douchebags. They have lazy minds. It doesn’t matter how clearly it is explained to them because they just keep coming back with the same argument every time – “it’s just a preference”. They can’t understand that terms such as “str8 acting” and “no Asians” are inherently vulgar and offensive, nor that there are better ways to express your sexual preferences. It’s exhausting dealing with the horde of morons out there like Sam who make it harder to be gay than the right wing Christians (because they condone and even endorse homophobia as a “preference”). It’s like saying I have a “preference” for stabbing a person to death rather than killing them with a bullet. FUCKTARDED DOUCHE BAGS
I’m pretty sure you’re retarded. Or trolling. I’m hoping for trolling.
We’re not trying to say WE’RE AS CLOSE TO STRAIGHT AS YOU CAN GET BECAUSE WERE SECRETLY CLOSETED AND SELF LOATHING. You’re a dude…act like a dude. I’m a dude who is straight acting (well, to complete strangers, since I’m an OPENLY GAY MAN), and I hold hands and kiss in public. Is it safe to say that you’re a huge flaming drag queen who openly hates on gays who hold onto their masculinity? Because that’s just as bigoted as you’re making us out to be. Also, “no Asians” is racist, so yes, it is offensive. “st8 acting” is not offensive. If he put “I hate fems, no fems”, then it would have been offensive.
TL;DR…Quit inciting flame wars; we can’t be “apologists” for people who really aren’t douches. Perhaps you’d like to draw your attention to the people who left comments calling him fat and such? They’re more worth your time and your rage.
The problem, Sam, is that this guy is willing to put hatred in his profile. Str8 acting, means, what? I’m closeted, I don’t do anything remotely gay, like hold hands or kiss hello.
Sam, are you going to be the apologist for all these douchebags on here? Seriously, let me know so I can knock you down a peg every fucking time you make an excuse for them.
How can you NOT see that these guys are cruel, racist, classist, ageist and downright UGLY because of the lack of an open mind? And if they are, they should have a modicum of forethought and not post it on a profile so that people can see what assholes they are. And yet they do, and that’s what this site is for — to call them out for being douchebags.
So, want to make an excuse for this or any other guy on here? Go on, I’m waiting.
Knock me down!!! That’s a very intelligent way to respond to my comments, next time try to raise a valid point against my comments and not use the word fucking a lot.
God bless the Internet for giving cowards like you a voice, because I’m pretty sure you would think twice before you say such foul things to me or to the guy on the picture for that matter.
Actually, I have no trouble saying what I say to people’s faces, because I have the courage of my convictions. I do it all the time and all you people who think “well, he wouldn’t say that to me in person” — WRONG. I tell it like it is and if they can’t handle it — I could really fucking care less.
Are you scared of the word “fucking,” Sam? Don’t do it enough to be attuned to fucking? FUCKING, Sam. It’s a word. See? FUCKING.
You or the douche in the pic — hell, ANY of these asswipes — none of you scare me. I take care of myself every day and if it means I do that with my opinions, my attitude or my fists, I do it.
Still want to make a fucking excuse, Sammy? Let’s hear it. 😀
Straight acting= acts like a straight guy, even though they aren’t. Though, I imaging your definition of the term is just downright silly. I do know guys like that…
-you’re a douchebag that calls intolerance due to the fact that guys like to state that they retain masculinity
-you seem to think that the aforementioned statement that you find offensive is in the same league as somebody being racist, ageist, classist, etc.
His last comment was just him laughing at you and AJ because you’re being ridiculous. Seriously…find ACTUAL douchebags, and rant about them. I’ve seen a few racists on here that I’m sure you’d love to “knock down a peg”.
On a final note, what the hell is “keen” and “keener”? Forgive me if it’s something I should know, but I AM a 20 year old, so…it’s not something I’ve ever heard before. Explanations, anyone?
Using terms like straight acting or straight looking is the worst and most offensive thing a gay man can say, imo… The only way someone can act or look straight is if they sleep with or date women… Otherwise you are just saying that gay people are not as good as straight people… That is the epitome of self loathing….
Wow. I think everyone here is upset that a guy is not open-minded enough to meet someone new and instead stay in his comfort zone. Dating/hooking up is hard enough. Why restrict yourself?
Silly Americans, “keen” is not a DB thing to say. This guy is clearly from Australia, though people in the UK are also keen on using the word keen.
If you see measurements in cm, kg or km, this person is probably not in the USA, and is likely to use slang words/phrases that we don’t use in the USA!
To all the people posting here I pose a question! If you feel that one persons opinion of a comment, outweighs another persons opinion, then aren’t you discriminating against their beliefs? I’m just sayin….
I agree with Sam. I only get attracted to guys that one can’t tell is gay, I have tons of effeminate people (queer/queeny) around me, some that I love and I don’t see them as inferior, to the contrary I cherish their personality as they are, but I’m still not attracted to them. I hope I cleared somethings up, with all the respect to all. PS I love a little gut too. To bad some people are too conforming into only one type of beauty. Who are the narrow minds?
He’s not a douche. He’s bi-curious and looking for same. That’s what he’s supposed to do! BCs need to be with their brethren ONLY! The same is true of every other sexuality. Gay guys don’t “own” all-male sexuality, nor are you entitled to every dick that comes down the pike. Get over yourselves.
He’s keening for someone?
Damn he’s hot
Sam what do u think is the hottest part? The ft gut, the track suit pants, or the irresistable personality? Personally I’m all for the gut
I like bears and he is the perfect bear for me!!! Or liking bears is wrong?
And what I dont understand is why people are offended when someone says he is looking for a masc guy or srt8 looking guy? Should I feel offended if someone says that he is looking for fem guys only? It is just a preference
I don’t see anything wrong with saying you prefer a masculine guy either, but saying “str8 looking” or “str8 acting” implies some internalized homophobia. It’s like saying “I’m gay, but I’m one of the good ones.”
“implies so internalized homophobia”!!! That is just being hypersensitive, and why do u read so much into the “str8 acting” from my perspective it is just that, when i use it to discribe myself it dont imply that I’m better than anyone else, I don’t imply that there is something wrong with someone acting gay, and what u thing something implies or doesn’t imply then that is a reflection to ur own internal demons.
I agree with you Sam. Talk about reading everything into nothing. Pft. BTW – he’s hot 🙂
Let’s not even respond to this sam guy. I’ve worked out quickly from this site that the racists and homophobes simply don’t have the requisite intelligence to understand why they are such douchebags. They have lazy minds. It doesn’t matter how clearly it is explained to them because they just keep coming back with the same argument every time – “it’s just a preference”. They can’t understand that terms such as “str8 acting” and “no Asians” are inherently vulgar and offensive, nor that there are better ways to express your sexual preferences. It’s exhausting dealing with the horde of morons out there like Sam who make it harder to be gay than the right wing Christians (because they condone and even endorse homophobia as a “preference”). It’s like saying I have a “preference” for stabbing a person to death rather than killing them with a bullet. FUCKTARDED DOUCHE BAGS
I’m pretty sure you’re retarded. Or trolling. I’m hoping for trolling.
We’re not trying to say WE’RE AS CLOSE TO STRAIGHT AS YOU CAN GET BECAUSE WERE SECRETLY CLOSETED AND SELF LOATHING. You’re a dude…act like a dude. I’m a dude who is straight acting (well, to complete strangers, since I’m an OPENLY GAY MAN), and I hold hands and kiss in public. Is it safe to say that you’re a huge flaming drag queen who openly hates on gays who hold onto their masculinity? Because that’s just as bigoted as you’re making us out to be. Also, “no Asians” is racist, so yes, it is offensive. “st8 acting” is not offensive. If he put “I hate fems, no fems”, then it would have been offensive.
TL;DR…Quit inciting flame wars; we can’t be “apologists” for people who really aren’t douches. Perhaps you’d like to draw your attention to the people who left comments calling him fat and such? They’re more worth your time and your rage.
The problem, Sam, is that this guy is willing to put hatred in his profile. Str8 acting, means, what? I’m closeted, I don’t do anything remotely gay, like hold hands or kiss hello.
Or using words like “keen”
Sam, are you going to be the apologist for all these douchebags on here? Seriously, let me know so I can knock you down a peg every fucking time you make an excuse for them.
How can you NOT see that these guys are cruel, racist, classist, ageist and downright UGLY because of the lack of an open mind? And if they are, they should have a modicum of forethought and not post it on a profile so that people can see what assholes they are. And yet they do, and that’s what this site is for — to call them out for being douchebags.
So, want to make an excuse for this or any other guy on here? Go on, I’m waiting.
Knock me down!!! That’s a very intelligent way to respond to my comments, next time try to raise a valid point against my comments and not use the word fucking a lot.
God bless the Internet for giving cowards like you a voice, because I’m pretty sure you would think twice before you say such foul things to me or to the guy on the picture for that matter.
Actually, I have no trouble saying what I say to people’s faces, because I have the courage of my convictions. I do it all the time and all you people who think “well, he wouldn’t say that to me in person” — WRONG. I tell it like it is and if they can’t handle it — I could really fucking care less.
Are you scared of the word “fucking,” Sam? Don’t do it enough to be attuned to fucking? FUCKING, Sam. It’s a word. See? FUCKING.
You or the douche in the pic — hell, ANY of these asswipes — none of you scare me. I take care of myself every day and if it means I do that with my opinions, my attitude or my fists, I do it.
Still want to make a fucking excuse, Sammy? Let’s hear it. 😀
I’ve always wondered why people use “str8 acting”. I want to say, “What does that mean? You eat pussy and pretend to like it?”
‘Cause suckin’ dick ain’t str8 acting unless you have a vag. I can’t find the term offensive because it’s just so damn silly.
Straight acting= acts like a straight guy, even though they aren’t. Though, I imaging your definition of the term is just downright silly. I do know guys like that…
The rest of us have made valid points sam. It’s interesting to see that you can’t respond to any of them.
Points made are:
-you’re a douchebag that calls intolerance due to the fact that guys like to state that they retain masculinity
-you seem to think that the aforementioned statement that you find offensive is in the same league as somebody being racist, ageist, classist, etc.
His last comment was just him laughing at you and AJ because you’re being ridiculous. Seriously…find ACTUAL douchebags, and rant about them. I’ve seen a few racists on here that I’m sure you’d love to “knock down a peg”.
On a final note, what the hell is “keen” and “keener”? Forgive me if it’s something I should know, but I AM a 20 year old, so…it’s not something I’ve ever heard before. Explanations, anyone?
Using terms like straight acting or straight looking is the worst and most offensive thing a gay man can say, imo… The only way someone can act or look straight is if they sleep with or date women… Otherwise you are just saying that gay people are not as good as straight people… That is the epitome of self loathing….
Wow. I think everyone here is upset that a guy is not open-minded enough to meet someone new and instead stay in his comfort zone. Dating/hooking up is hard enough. Why restrict yourself?
Silly Americans, “keen” is not a DB thing to say. This guy is clearly from Australia, though people in the UK are also keen on using the word keen.
If you see measurements in cm, kg or km, this person is probably not in the USA, and is likely to use slang words/phrases that we don’t use in the USA!
To all the people posting here I pose a question! If you feel that one persons opinion of a comment, outweighs another persons opinion, then aren’t you discriminating against their beliefs? I’m just sayin….
I agree with Sam. I only get attracted to guys that one can’t tell is gay, I have tons of effeminate people (queer/queeny) around me, some that I love and I don’t see them as inferior, to the contrary I cherish their personality as they are, but I’m still not attracted to them. I hope I cleared somethings up, with all the respect to all. PS I love a little gut too. To bad some people are too conforming into only one type of beauty. Who are the narrow minds?
He’s not a douche. He’s bi-curious and looking for same. That’s what he’s supposed to do! BCs need to be with their brethren ONLY! The same is true of every other sexuality. Gay guys don’t “own” all-male sexuality, nor are you entitled to every dick that comes down the pike. Get over yourselves.