This statement is widely used by most gay men. Why is everyone surprised. I’ll tell you one thing. He would fuck/get fucked a/by black guy but would never date him. Which is sad.
When they tell him to get his fag ass out of somewhere. Then there is no one to blame. If you want fairness it starts at home. I can not believe you feel that why CURTIS. So sad.
The ‘white’ thing is perfectly fine. You can’t help who you are and aren’t attracted to. Right everyone? No one is an equal-opportunity-humper or we would all be bisexuals.
It sounds like the comments say he’s a douche in other regards though, which makes this post totally warranted. Otherwise, I don’t see the problem.
Look, I guess this is the rejection site for grindr, but for me to say on my profile please be white what is wrong with that i know what i like and thats it. Some thug I am!!! I am a mechanical engineer and actually have my shit together. so what if i didn’t think black guys are my type. Get over it. That what I like and this is just drama another place gay people can gossip. If your so bad ass put your picture up with your comments or if you meet me say it to my face. Really shows how much balls you really have. That is douche baggy
Mechanical Engineer my ASS! Didn’t someone call you out not long ago for having a fake degree or possibly using someone elses? I remember something about you either lying about your age or your degree. Maybe both? #TrashyWhiteBitchThatStoleHerWaytotheTOP!
Guess he now knows how a black man feels to be alienated.. hehe but preference is all to him. If he said looking for friends then said only white, then you can dean him a racist since he didn’t say anything, it still up in the air. And he only has his own self to blame for the hit on that. Watch what you type, say or do this day any age your have to explain yourself the best way you can.
Honestly, lay off this poor d-bag for only liking white guys. We all have a preference! It’s only natural.
However, I’ve met this poor soul and I’m going to call him out in his lie. Masculine?? Like hell. My little sister is more masculine than he is! Positive that he shits more glitter than Tinkerbell. He hit the nail on the head with simple though! Kudos for a little honesty!
so why only being attracted to one race make you racist?
— because it is based on RACE to begin with. Its a colonial mentality that segregates people based upon pre conceived stereotypes. I understand sexual attraction toward men probably in the genetic area but ‘racial preference’ is a preference that builds upon social stigma and media brainwashing. Did you get out from the womb and know/decide that you’d be looking to be attracted to WHITE MEN only? Now, how about those Asians who are only into WHITE MEN. Don’t tell me it is in their genetic code?
having sexual attraction toward another men is natural.
having a RACIAL PREFERENCE is unnatural.
some people need to be educated.
i know, there are too many ignorant white privilege gays these days. They think their ‘opinions’ are far more important and valid – PC crap. The ‘faux’ white liberal bs. that is.
Some of your guys are right. There is nothing wrong with professing your desire to only be with white guys. Moreover, you need to accept that bigots have a right to think you are “wrong” for sleeping with men in general (regardless of their race). If you can be a bigot, so can everyone else. Sheesh, some gays kill me with what they THINK is politically correct and what is not. It’s as if it’s ok to be racist just as long as you are not homophobic. GTFOH with that crap.
OHHH…worst date of my life! Showed up in his black BMW wearing anything he could attach to his body that had been previously worn on Jersey Shore. I couldn’t wait for it to be over!
Dude is not racist at all. It is a preference. People like what they like. A vegetarian does not go out to a steak house for dinner does he? People now a days need to stop taking offense to every little thing and get over being rejected. It happens. Get up be a man dust yourself off and keep moving. The dude is just telling you what he likes so GET OVER IT YOU SENSITIVE BABIES AND BE MEN!!!!
I met this guy… Really creepy, first of all he is completely feminine in person which is a huge turn off especially since he tells everyone he is “masc” and he is not as pretty as his pics… Also he kept making these over the top moaning sounds like if I put my hand on him… It was like he was having a fake orgasm if I barely touched him. Needless to say… Do not hook up with this guy! Yikes
Preference? I think people need to look up the definition of the word. This is blatant prejudice. Preference would be: I prefer white guys, but I’m open to others. Gay community is one of the prejudice communities around. And I grew up in GA! We’re suppose to a community of openness and inclusion yet we do the opposite.
If you prefer vanilla over chocolate you don’t say “All flavors welcome”. You state what you want and every whines “Why don’t you like Strawberry or Rocky Road?” Deal with it. Some of us prefer certain things. It’s not prejudice. It’s preference.
All chocolate tastes pretty much the same. People who share the same skin color are not all pretty much the same. How can you know you’re not attracted to an entire group of people, most of whom you’ve never met, unless you’re turned off by the one thing shared by them all — color. That is preference informed by prejudice.
“Please be white” is not a preference. “I only like white guys” is a preference. “Please be white” is very poor gay sex hookup vernacular at best, flat out racist at worst.
Obviously there are a lot of poorly educated tools on here who are still making the “it’s key a preference, it’s not racism” argument. Let’s spell it out on last time for the dummies:
A. A preference is something like this: “I find White men very attractive”
B. A racist slur is something like this: “Asians – prease reave me arone”
As a black man, I’m not really bothered. Other black men have treated me just as badly. There are lots of black men out there who only want white men. Everyone seems to be looking for that fantasy image that no one can live up to. We all end up with average people in the end.
This is not racism, people. Calling stupid stuff like this “racism” is why that word has lost virtually all of it’s original meaning, and horribly cheapens actual racism, as well as numbing people to the word. Calling some slut trying to hook up on Grinder racist because he wants a white guy to fuck him is like calling a drunken sex rape. People are allowed to not want to have sex with certain people for whatever reason they want.
Is there anything more pathetic than watching racists defend their right to be racist? Too PC my ass. Just admit that you don’t like being called on your character flaws.
“Whites Only” sentiments are met with scorn the world over – so why should that behavior be excused just because a bunch of sexually addicted pigs want to get their dicks wet?
I love it when a white guy states that he is only into white guys everyone is quick to call him a racist and how generally it offends most black people.
And then
You go to the next profile which is a black guy and he has some shit like, I DON’T DO WHITES, MEN OF COLOUR ONLY, NO WHITES, BLACK ONLY, ONLY REAL NIGGAS COME AT ME, or some bullshit clearly stating he is not into whites and this is ok and acceptable.
Grindr, A4A, Manhunt, etc… are hookup sites, they are designed for that, promoted for just that, and thats exactly what they are. So when someone says they are into whites only, not into blacks, or something along those lines it simply means that is not what they are sexually looking for and they do not have to explain themselves on how they aren’t racist and what not. Everyone is attracted to different types, colors, fetishes, and so on. If you happen to fall into a category that a person is not into then get the F*** over it!!!
You people crack me up with your bullshit, worry about yourself and quit worrying about what everyone else is doing!!!
And I forgot to mention the profiles of the Black guys that say they are into Whites only. What’s this shit about, why is it acceptable for them to be only into white guys and not even their own kind but when a white guy says it, it’s the end of the world???
who said either example excuses the other? both would be examples of the effects of a racist society on both white and black men, people here are simply pointing that out
I had the total displeasure of meeting him as well, and while I have no problem with the white preference, he is one of the most feminine guys I’ve met, NOT MASC at all, and talk nothing but of how much he liked to btm. He’s a wreck, and that is the only good picture of him, in person he was much fatter!
that’s ignoring the fact that the entire colonized world has been conditioned to prefer white skin. media representation is completely out of sync with the realities of ethnic demographics – wildly out of sync.
women in india use dangerous skin bleaching creams to lighten their skin.
i didn’t even know black gay guys existed until i was a teen (and i’m black, btw) because media representation almost only shows gay white men and sometimes gay black men with them but rarely and never EVER two gay black men together (what worth is there in that?).
ice cream flavors are a preference. a natural preference.
but when will gay men wake up and realize that a lot of their desires are colonized, taught, and policed?
I guess being black stripped you of your right to religion as well???
The fact that you make excuses that black men are only into white or prefer white makes you a complete JACK ASS.
People are attracted to many different things…personal appearance, intelligence, personality, asses, and even dick sizes, etc… If one chooses not to seek out others because of personal appearance that is their choice, the same choice that you have. On another note, someone is only as attractive as the person that is looking at them at that time thinks they are. One person could find one person ugly as F*** and another person may find that same person hot as F***.
I generally speaking do not find Black men attractive, I also generally do not find Asian men attractive. Does that mean there are not any attractive Black men or Asian men out there? No, it does not, As I said earlier, a person is attractive if the person checking that person out thinks that person is attractive. And for the record I have met Black and Asian guys that I have found attractive, but generally I do not. So if I am on a hookup site and looking for just that a hookup and I do not want to be bothered by Black men, Asian men, or even Green, Purple, Blue for that matter then DEAL WITH IT!!!
It’s no ones right to tell someone what should attract them.
With that said it is no one persons concern or business what another person is attracted to, so like I said before, worry about yourself and quit worrying about what the next person is doing!!!
I agree with your statement. But for the record, when I tell White men I am only into Black men, they make the assumption that I will make an exception for them just because they are white guys who are into Black men. I’ve never been called a reverse racist, but I have been treated as if I don’t have a right to my preferences because I’m Black. Like, how dare I turn down a white man. But as I stated in an earlier post, other Black men have treated me badly. Men are men. It’s hard to get it up for someone, when you aren’t attracted to them.
ok, you absolutely missed my entire point and used your post as a voicebox for defensiveness. i never said a person should be attracted to this or that but simply voiced that a lot about attraction is taught.
your decision to trip, call me names, use all caps, etc. simply shows that you have much deeper issues that i hope you’ll someday address.
Khi. I agree. When a white man likes YD speaks, he thinks he has better opinion than others because of his white entitlement. Racial preference is as racist as txt racism 101. To equate racial preference with ‘blondes, dick size, etc ‘ is short sighted. But again, white men experience racism first hand? Ahem. please.
I agree with Gregg. You’re all judging someone and for what? Life isn’t fair, people have preferences and not everyones likes you… Welcome to being an adult. Man up, shut up, move on.
This site sucks and epitomises a lot of what is wrong with gay men/culture. How about we all keep our noses in our own business and try to live a good honest and fun life.
This has been the biggest waste of my time and I won’t be returning.
What ever happened to “there’s an exception to the rule?” Would this guy really choose Bruce Vilanch over Tyson Beckford?
The issue here isn’t preference, which is fine. The issue here is an exclusion of an entire group of people by saying ignorant statements like, “Please be white” or “Not into Asians/Blacks/Whites.” It’s like a school saying “please be white” or “no blacks no asians.” You just can’t say stupid shit like that without sounding like a DOUCHE.
Racism aside, this guy is a BIIIIIIG ol’ douche. After meeting him in real life he does deserve to be on this site for one reason or another. He is just lucky that it’s because of a silly comment he wrote on Grindr, when there is just so much material on this fucker. At any rate, everyone have a nice day. Remember, NO glove= NO love!
Why is this a problem? I get hit on all the time by black dudes and … I’m just not attracted to them. Like I’m not attracted to females. This dude is not raciset he’s just being honest about what he is attracted to.
Seriously, douchebagsofgrindr.com? Post something that is actually ‘douchy’ and not picking on people because they are different from you. — not cool.
This is a first: I will not comment about Tyler, esp. since I don’t know him, but I will comment on the White preference deal. Some of these guys are too delicate for other ethnic flavors, you can’t help but feel sorry for them. At least there are other plenty of sharks in the sea who are willing to be adventurous. Trust me when I say this Tyler: you will never experience real passion until you meet an “exotic” guy (yes, I realize this all sounds stereotypical and racist, but it’s true and I’ve been told by other White menz myself).
Anyway, whoever compared ice cream flavors to ethnicity preference is retarded! Really you’re going to compare food with humans? Get real!
I love it how racists never want to be called out on it. The fact is many white gay guys are very very very racist. And they lash out when called out on it, but a spade is a spade.
The statement “Please be white” and others like it suggest that you’d prefer ANY white guy over ANY guy of any other race. Tyler would apparently rather be contacted by Rush Limbaugh than by Shemar Moore.
Yes, the suggestion notion that the hottest most desirable black men are still lower on your scale that the nastiest, ugliest white guy IS racist. And that’s exactly what “whites only” suggests.
Racist and sad. But all too typical of too many white gay men. And don’t get me started on my white gay friends who do find ethnic guys hot and will fuck them but will only have serious relationships with other white men. What is this, the plantation era? Effed up.
Thank goodness I have no preference for ethnicity or race (makes me sound like a ho, doesn’t it?) back to this guy, sure he prefers white guys. However, the way he phrased it is often misconstrued as being racist. He might not be racist but he sure sounds like a douchebag 🙂
All of you hoes all hooked up on the fact that dis boi dont like black, get over it, i met this guy (think) hes fat in person and thinks his ballin haha!! I thought hes top when all he does is stick his hairy ass out gross i wus like gtg
I am not white, but you have to be straight forward to filter the thousands of messages out there. He is not making a racist comment, just a preference,
No one has stated the obvious. Black men smell different than white men. Some folks dig it, others don’t. Asians generally have smaller dicks. Some men dig it, others don’t. Latins often have head cheese. Some men dig it, some don’t. White men feel entitled. Some men dig it, some don’t.
There is nothing wrong with having a racial preference. But the way it’s stated in this DB’s profile is just so arrogant and ignorant. “Please be white”: as if being anything else invalidates you. Why the need to state any racial preference on your profile? If someone you aren’t attracted to sends you a message, you have the option of not responding. Say a polite hello back, it doesn’t have to go any further. Maybe if gay men started treating one another with a little dignity, the rest of society might take us a bit more seriously.
Oh and message number 69, AKA John: The most obvious thing about you is your complete inability to be clever.
PS: Number 65/66 – I sincerely doubt you are receiving 1000’s of messages. I’m sure once people find out that you’re a bigot, they’ll stop messaging.
What I find strange is that there are guys on here who have met him and are bitching about how feminine he acts and how fat he is in real life yet they still fucked him nonetheless!!! Yes he is a douche. And you shouldn’t be sticking ur dicks in a douche. That’s just plain gross HAHAHA
!!!!! I’m pretty sure I met this guy this weekend in Dallas??? He would NOT leave me alone and I was holding my BF’s hand the WHOLE TIME!!! my bf is black… I would NOT fuck this mess with a 10 foot pole, it was RUDE he hit on me when it’s OBVIOUS I had a bf!! And no if this is the guy he does NOT look like his photo and needs reconstructive surgery his face is all jacked up in person, kinda feel bad for him, if I see him again I will call him out on it (the rude part) Rude
This guy is definitely a douche bag. But not because he states his preference for white guys. It’s grindr – a hook up site. We’re all there for fucking, not diplomacy. If he said “no women” does that make him sexist? No, he just prefers to fuck men. You ALL have your preferences. You won’t fuck a guy because he’s too chubby or doesn’t have a big enough dick or smokes or is more or less 5 years your age. So why is this ONE parameter off limits?
He’s not a douche. Your bitchy responses are exactly why he’s not into effeminate men. Get over yourselves, and go on to the next man who’s out of your league.
sadly I find this one cute. but really? is being contacted by a different race THAT big of a problem?
white people are so lucky to have him to fuck
Sadly I met this guy and he thinks he’s a thug.. Talking like a black person and trying to rap
This statement is widely used by most gay men. Why is everyone surprised. I’ll tell you one thing. He would fuck/get fucked a/by black guy but would never date him. Which is sad.
He knows what he likes. no faulting him for that!
When they tell him to get his fag ass out of somewhere. Then there is no one to blame. If you want fairness it starts at home. I can not believe you feel that why CURTIS. So sad.
Yeah… I’ve met him. He can be a total douche! Thinks he is a high roller and he will talk about it all day!!!
Sadly, I know this one. Cute, but dumb as a stump with a bad attitude. His inclusion on this website is not unwarranted. Good call whoever posted!
Who cares? At least he’s direct and to the point. We all have our preferences. Stop being such politically correct queens.
HAHA you sound just like Tyler!
Masculine? Let me tell you something… Sucking dick is not a masculine quality! 🙂
The ‘white’ thing is perfectly fine. You can’t help who you are and aren’t attracted to. Right everyone? No one is an equal-opportunity-humper or we would all be bisexuals.
It sounds like the comments say he’s a douche in other regards though, which makes this post totally warranted. Otherwise, I don’t see the problem.
Look, I guess this is the rejection site for grindr, but for me to say on my profile please be white what is wrong with that i know what i like and thats it. Some thug I am!!! I am a mechanical engineer and actually have my shit together. so what if i didn’t think black guys are my type. Get over it. That what I like and this is just drama another place gay people can gossip. If your so bad ass put your picture up with your comments or if you meet me say it to my face. Really shows how much balls you really have. That is douche baggy
Defensive much? 😀
Honey, it’s not a question of who’s more bad-ass. Humble people don’t worry about those things.
Mechanical Engineer my ASS! Didn’t someone call you out not long ago for having a fake degree or possibly using someone elses? I remember something about you either lying about your age or your degree. Maybe both? #TrashyWhiteBitchThatStoleHerWaytotheTOP!
Guess he now knows how a black man feels to be alienated.. hehe but preference is all to him. If he said looking for friends then said only white, then you can dean him a racist since he didn’t say anything, it still up in the air. And he only has his own self to blame for the hit on that. Watch what you type, say or do this day any age your have to explain yourself the best way you can.
we all have our preferances… why is this such a big deal? tyler you’re hott, keep it up! :p
Know the difference between your & you’re, Mr. Engineer.
Honestly, lay off this poor d-bag for only liking white guys. We all have a preference! It’s only natural.
However, I’ve met this poor soul and I’m going to call him out in his lie. Masculine?? Like hell. My little sister is more masculine than he is! Positive that he shits more glitter than Tinkerbell. He hit the nail on the head with simple though! Kudos for a little honesty!
so why only being attracted to one race make you racist?
— because it is based on RACE to begin with. Its a colonial mentality that segregates people based upon pre conceived stereotypes. I understand sexual attraction toward men probably in the genetic area but ‘racial preference’ is a preference that builds upon social stigma and media brainwashing. Did you get out from the womb and know/decide that you’d be looking to be attracted to WHITE MEN only? Now, how about those Asians who are only into WHITE MEN. Don’t tell me it is in their genetic code?
having sexual attraction toward another men is natural.
having a RACIAL PREFERENCE is unnatural.
some people need to be educated.
PREACH BABY GIRL!!!1 *raise hand
i know, there are too many ignorant white privilege gays these days. They think their ‘opinions’ are far more important and valid – PC crap. The ‘faux’ white liberal bs. that is.
Some of your guys are right. There is nothing wrong with professing your desire to only be with white guys. Moreover, you need to accept that bigots have a right to think you are “wrong” for sleeping with men in general (regardless of their race). If you can be a bigot, so can everyone else. Sheesh, some gays kill me with what they THINK is politically correct and what is not. It’s as if it’s ok to be racist just as long as you are not homophobic. GTFOH with that crap.
OHHH…worst date of my life! Showed up in his black BMW wearing anything he could attach to his body that had been previously worn on Jersey Shore. I couldn’t wait for it to be over!
well heller; what do you expect when family money gives you everything you need.
my left nut has a higher iq than that douche.
Haha anyone else noticed he’s only 5lb – lite weight!
Dude is not racist at all. It is a preference. People like what they like. A vegetarian does not go out to a steak house for dinner does he? People now a days need to stop taking offense to every little thing and get over being rejected. It happens. Get up be a man dust yourself off and keep moving. The dude is just telling you what he likes so GET OVER IT YOU SENSITIVE BABIES AND BE MEN!!!!
I met this guy… Really creepy, first of all he is completely feminine in person which is a huge turn off especially since he tells everyone he is “masc” and he is not as pretty as his pics… Also he kept making these over the top moaning sounds like if I put my hand on him… It was like he was having a fake orgasm if I barely touched him. Needless to say… Do not hook up with this guy! Yikes
“Please be white” – right back atcha!
Preference? I think people need to look up the definition of the word. This is blatant prejudice. Preference would be: I prefer white guys, but I’m open to others. Gay community is one of the prejudice communities around. And I grew up in GA! We’re suppose to a community of openness and inclusion yet we do the opposite.
If you prefer vanilla over chocolate you don’t say “All flavors welcome”. You state what you want and every whines “Why don’t you like Strawberry or Rocky Road?” Deal with it. Some of us prefer certain things. It’s not prejudice. It’s preference.
All chocolate tastes pretty much the same. People who share the same skin color are not all pretty much the same. How can you know you’re not attracted to an entire group of people, most of whom you’ve never met, unless you’re turned off by the one thing shared by them all — color. That is preference informed by prejudice.
If any other race woke up one morning with a white persons’ skin, we would think we were dying.
“Please be white” is not a preference. “I only like white guys” is a preference. “Please be white” is very poor gay sex hookup vernacular at best, flat out racist at worst.
Obviously there are a lot of poorly educated tools on here who are still making the “it’s key a preference, it’s not racism” argument. Let’s spell it out on last time for the dummies:
A. A preference is something like this: “I find White men very attractive”
B. A racist slur is something like this: “Asians – prease reave me arone”
As a black man, I’m not really bothered. Other black men have treated me just as badly. There are lots of black men out there who only want white men. Everyone seems to be looking for that fantasy image that no one can live up to. We all end up with average people in the end.
This is not racism, people. Calling stupid stuff like this “racism” is why that word has lost virtually all of it’s original meaning, and horribly cheapens actual racism, as well as numbing people to the word. Calling some slut trying to hook up on Grinder racist because he wants a white guy to fuck him is like calling a drunken sex rape. People are allowed to not want to have sex with certain people for whatever reason they want.
Is there anything more pathetic than watching racists defend their right to be racist? Too PC my ass. Just admit that you don’t like being called on your character flaws.
“Whites Only” sentiments are met with scorn the world over – so why should that behavior be excused just because a bunch of sexually addicted pigs want to get their dicks wet?
Why is it acceptable for a BLACK man to state in his profile….
BLACKS ONLY
or even I have seen Black Men post WHITE ONLY
What’s that shit???
And for the record, when I did see a Black man’s profile say Black only, I was not offended and I sure as hell did not start a blog about it….
I love it when a white guy states that he is only into white guys everyone is quick to call him a racist and how generally it offends most black people.
And then
You go to the next profile which is a black guy and he has some shit like, I DON’T DO WHITES, MEN OF COLOUR ONLY, NO WHITES, BLACK ONLY, ONLY REAL NIGGAS COME AT ME, or some bullshit clearly stating he is not into whites and this is ok and acceptable.
Grindr, A4A, Manhunt, etc… are hookup sites, they are designed for that, promoted for just that, and thats exactly what they are. So when someone says they are into whites only, not into blacks, or something along those lines it simply means that is not what they are sexually looking for and they do not have to explain themselves on how they aren’t racist and what not. Everyone is attracted to different types, colors, fetishes, and so on. If you happen to fall into a category that a person is not into then get the F*** over it!!!
You people crack me up with your bullshit, worry about yourself and quit worrying about what everyone else is doing!!!
And I forgot to mention the profiles of the Black guys that say they are into Whites only. What’s this shit about, why is it acceptable for them to be only into white guys and not even their own kind but when a white guy says it, it’s the end of the world???
who said either example excuses the other? both would be examples of the effects of a racist society on both white and black men, people here are simply pointing that out
I had the total displeasure of meeting him as well, and while I have no problem with the white preference, he is one of the most feminine guys I’ve met, NOT MASC at all, and talk nothing but of how much he liked to btm. He’s a wreck, and that is the only good picture of him, in person he was much fatter!
godDAMMIT it’s hardly “preference.”
that’s ignoring the fact that the entire colonized world has been conditioned to prefer white skin. media representation is completely out of sync with the realities of ethnic demographics – wildly out of sync.
women in india use dangerous skin bleaching creams to lighten their skin.
i didn’t even know black gay guys existed until i was a teen (and i’m black, btw) because media representation almost only shows gay white men and sometimes gay black men with them but rarely and never EVER two gay black men together (what worth is there in that?).
ice cream flavors are a preference. a natural preference.
but when will gay men wake up and realize that a lot of their desires are colonized, taught, and policed?
I guess being black stripped you of your right to religion as well???
The fact that you make excuses that black men are only into white or prefer white makes you a complete JACK ASS.
People are attracted to many different things…personal appearance, intelligence, personality, asses, and even dick sizes, etc… If one chooses not to seek out others because of personal appearance that is their choice, the same choice that you have. On another note, someone is only as attractive as the person that is looking at them at that time thinks they are. One person could find one person ugly as F*** and another person may find that same person hot as F***.
I generally speaking do not find Black men attractive, I also generally do not find Asian men attractive. Does that mean there are not any attractive Black men or Asian men out there? No, it does not, As I said earlier, a person is attractive if the person checking that person out thinks that person is attractive. And for the record I have met Black and Asian guys that I have found attractive, but generally I do not. So if I am on a hookup site and looking for just that a hookup and I do not want to be bothered by Black men, Asian men, or even Green, Purple, Blue for that matter then DEAL WITH IT!!!
It’s no ones right to tell someone what should attract them.
With that said it is no one persons concern or business what another person is attracted to, so like I said before, worry about yourself and quit worrying about what the next person is doing!!!
I agree with your statement. But for the record, when I tell White men I am only into Black men, they make the assumption that I will make an exception for them just because they are white guys who are into Black men. I’ve never been called a reverse racist, but I have been treated as if I don’t have a right to my preferences because I’m Black. Like, how dare I turn down a white man. But as I stated in an earlier post, other Black men have treated me badly. Men are men. It’s hard to get it up for someone, when you aren’t attracted to them.
ok, you absolutely missed my entire point and used your post as a voicebox for defensiveness. i never said a person should be attracted to this or that but simply voiced that a lot about attraction is taught.
your decision to trip, call me names, use all caps, etc. simply shows that you have much deeper issues that i hope you’ll someday address.
Khi. I agree. When a white man likes YD speaks, he thinks he has better opinion than others because of his white entitlement. Racial preference is as racist as txt racism 101. To equate racial preference with ‘blondes, dick size, etc ‘ is short sighted. But again, white men experience racism first hand? Ahem. please.
Oh wah wah! So he just likes white guys. U can’t help what ur attracted to. If only liking white guys is racist then only liking men is sexist.
He only weighs 5lbs apparently.
I agree with Gregg. You’re all judging someone and for what? Life isn’t fair, people have preferences and not everyones likes you… Welcome to being an adult. Man up, shut up, move on.
This site sucks and epitomises a lot of what is wrong with gay men/culture. How about we all keep our noses in our own business and try to live a good honest and fun life.
This has been the biggest waste of my time and I won’t be returning.
What ever happened to “there’s an exception to the rule?” Would this guy really choose Bruce Vilanch over Tyson Beckford?
The issue here isn’t preference, which is fine. The issue here is an exclusion of an entire group of people by saying ignorant statements like, “Please be white” or “Not into Asians/Blacks/Whites.” It’s like a school saying “please be white” or “no blacks no asians.” You just can’t say stupid shit like that without sounding like a DOUCHE.
Exactly!
Racism aside, this guy is a BIIIIIIG ol’ douche. After meeting him in real life he does deserve to be on this site for one reason or another. He is just lucky that it’s because of a silly comment he wrote on Grindr, when there is just so much material on this fucker. At any rate, everyone have a nice day. Remember, NO glove= NO love!
His preference isnot racist…. How he and many others express that, is.
Why is this a problem? I get hit on all the time by black dudes and … I’m just not attracted to them. Like I’m not attracted to females. This dude is not raciset he’s just being honest about what he is attracted to.
Seriously, douchebagsofgrindr.com? Post something that is actually ‘douchy’ and not picking on people because they are different from you. — not cool.
He looks old for 25.
What he wants is OK… Some wants Asians, others wants Blacks… it’s just a preference… But he’s 5 LBS… lol
OK he is NOT CUTE.
This is a first: I will not comment about Tyler, esp. since I don’t know him, but I will comment on the White preference deal. Some of these guys are too delicate for other ethnic flavors, you can’t help but feel sorry for them. At least there are other plenty of sharks in the sea who are willing to be adventurous. Trust me when I say this Tyler: you will never experience real passion until you meet an “exotic” guy (yes, I realize this all sounds stereotypical and racist, but it’s true and I’ve been told by other White menz myself).
Anyway, whoever compared ice cream flavors to ethnicity preference is retarded! Really you’re going to compare food with humans? Get real!
I love it how racists never want to be called out on it. The fact is many white gay guys are very very very racist. And they lash out when called out on it, but a spade is a spade.
The statement “Please be white” and others like it suggest that you’d prefer ANY white guy over ANY guy of any other race. Tyler would apparently rather be contacted by Rush Limbaugh than by Shemar Moore.
Yes, the suggestion notion that the hottest most desirable black men are still lower on your scale that the nastiest, ugliest white guy IS racist. And that’s exactly what “whites only” suggests.
Racist and sad. But all too typical of too many white gay men. And don’t get me started on my white gay friends who do find ethnic guys hot and will fuck them but will only have serious relationships with other white men. What is this, the plantation era? Effed up.
Thank goodness I have no preference for ethnicity or race (makes me sound like a ho, doesn’t it?) back to this guy, sure he prefers white guys. However, the way he phrased it is often misconstrued as being racist. He might not be racist but he sure sounds like a douchebag 🙂
All of you hoes all hooked up on the fact that dis boi dont like black, get over it, i met this guy (think) hes fat in person and thinks his ballin haha!! I thought hes top when all he does is stick his hairy ass out gross i wus like gtg
I am not white, but you have to be straight forward to filter the thousands of messages out there.
I am not white, but you have to be straight forward to filter the thousands of messages out there. He is not making a racist comment, just a preference,
. He is not making a racist comment, just a preference,
— thats a racist preference to filter people based on RACE.
Ive met this person in Dallas. He didn’t look like his picture and then he seemed to only want to bottom.
No one has stated the obvious. Black men smell different than white men. Some folks dig it, others don’t. Asians generally have smaller dicks. Some men dig it, others don’t. Latins often have head cheese. Some men dig it, some don’t. White men feel entitled. Some men dig it, some don’t.
There is nothing wrong with having a racial preference. But the way it’s stated in this DB’s profile is just so arrogant and ignorant. “Please be white”: as if being anything else invalidates you. Why the need to state any racial preference on your profile? If someone you aren’t attracted to sends you a message, you have the option of not responding. Say a polite hello back, it doesn’t have to go any further. Maybe if gay men started treating one another with a little dignity, the rest of society might take us a bit more seriously.
Oh and message number 69, AKA John: The most obvious thing about you is your complete inability to be clever.
PS: Number 65/66 – I sincerely doubt you are receiving 1000’s of messages. I’m sure once people find out that you’re a bigot, they’ll stop messaging.
What I find strange is that there are guys on here who have met him and are bitching about how feminine he acts and how fat he is in real life yet they still fucked him nonetheless!!! Yes he is a douche. And you shouldn’t be sticking ur dicks in a douche. That’s just plain gross HAHAHA
!!!!! I’m pretty sure I met this guy this weekend in Dallas??? He would NOT leave me alone and I was holding my BF’s hand the WHOLE TIME!!! my bf is black… I would NOT fuck this mess with a 10 foot pole, it was RUDE he hit on me when it’s OBVIOUS I had a bf!! And no if this is the guy he does NOT look like his photo and needs reconstructive surgery his face is all jacked up in person, kinda feel bad for him, if I see him again I will call him out on it (the rude part) Rude
Or at least more white than he is.
This guy is definitely a douche bag. But not because he states his preference for white guys. It’s grindr – a hook up site. We’re all there for fucking, not diplomacy. If he said “no women” does that make him sexist? No, he just prefers to fuck men. You ALL have your preferences. You won’t fuck a guy because he’s too chubby or doesn’t have a big enough dick or smokes or is more or less 5 years your age. So why is this ONE parameter off limits?
Ewwww I wouldn’t screw him with his own cock
He’s not a douche. Your bitchy responses are exactly why he’s not into effeminate men. Get over yourselves, and go on to the next man who’s out of your league.