What an ass. I chatted with him. Reading THIS profile forever changed how I address what I am or am not looking for in my online profiles. How insensitive.
There is nothing wrong with this, people are born with attraction to a certain look or type it’s not a preference, he can’t help the fact that he is not attracted to Asians , it’s like saying that being gas is a choice, this is not racism.
I dont use grindr, but if someone talks to you and he is not your type, cannot you just not reply or block him, just as if he would do with an ugly white male?
I mean, you can select what you like without looking like a total racist asshole
Wow! You honestly don’t think there is nothing wrong with saying “prease reave me arone.” That tells us as much about you as it does about this douche. Hope you’re not on Grindr ’cause you just might end up on this site.
His “douchery” isn’t in the form of his preference. It’s in the way he communicates it. In using a stereotypical, racist accent of an Asian person, he is perpetuating racism.
I don’t find offence in the fact that he doesn’t find Asians sexually attractive, because neither do I (and I bet a lot of Asians wouldn’t find me attractive either!).
What I do find offensive is the “prease reave me arone” comment. There’s really no place for that kind of thing these days, it’s not topical and it’s not funny.
someone should post an asian boy saying he doesn’t like anyone but whiteboys… the guy has a prejudice, he’s not stopping asians from dating, if they so chose, no a big deal, move on… is it bad that “prease reave me arone” reminded me of the team America movie? 😐
I think you miss the point. Who cares who he fucks? But if you’re gonna be an asshole about it by stating your preferences in a way that is dismissive, derogatory or nasty to other people, then you deserve all the shit you get.
If it were me, I’d just punch the smug fucker in the face if he said something like that to me. And then, yeah, no big deal, I’d move on.
I sent in this picture — I captured it probably two years ago and saved it hoping that one day a website like this would exist. He’s in San Francisco (or was then). What a phenomenal douche.
I am the first to argue that you cant control who you are attracted to and this often times leads to the exclusion of certain ethnicities- but wow. This guy is a racist douche.
Honestly why would you even bother advertising your lack of interest in an ethnicity on Grindr anyways? If you aren’t into them then simply don’t answer when they text you “hi”. They will get the hint.
To go and put “not into blacks/asians/whites/whatever” is a little rude- but it’s not really douchey to me. To do it with a racist affectation to your text? THAT is douchey.
LOL, I totally know this douche. Used to work with him, until everyone figured out he was a pathological liar. Made up all these stories like he had ball cancer and was in med school and law school at the same time, and his parents died on like 3 separate occasions. Complete nutjob as well as a douchebag. Stay far, far away.
Lol I agree with the dude. The Asian persuasion gets on my nerve too. Especially the damn Indians. HOWEVER if they contact me I just tell them straight forward not into Asians and end it right there. So does that make me a douche?
I’m Asian, and I don’t think that makes you a douche or rascist. I think that’s legit, if you aren’t attracted… but uh, reave me arone? That’s douchey and maybe a little racist.
What’s wrong with these douchebags? If a White guy they aren’t attracted to sends them a message they either ignore them or block them but if an Asian or Indian messages them they go psycho. Pathetic
Sorry, but I totally agree with this guy on his profile. Ever think of why would anyone be that specific on their profile?? It’s because there are so many slutty and desperate asians hitting on and messaging him. Disgrace to the gay asian community. PLEASE STOP FLOOD-MESSAGING WHITE GUYS!!! THEY WILL MESSAGE YOU IF THEY ARE INTERESTED.
I think this is hilarious and I totally understand where he’s coming from. Not all but most Asians are persistent to the point of being harassing and can’t take a hint. He’s probably sick of being bothered.
douche’s making white people look bad, very very bad. even though i’m sticky i’d never post anything like that against any race, it’s stupid, and does nothing good.
Spend enough time on grindr and you realise you get “flood messaged” by a lot of difference races. So singling out Asians is simply pathetic. Andy and “cutehunkywes” are only showing their own disgusting prejudice and ignorance. Send ur own profiles in boys so we can flame them as well ! DOUCHEBAGS
I like how all the guys who CLAIM they dated and/or know him say he’s chubby or whatever. fact is HE ISNT. If you want i’ll happily post a pic of his abs. and if you think I dont know him he has a dog whose name begins with P and end in S.
I met him on Grindr. we never hooked up. we’re friends. he’s a F*CKING COOL GUY. So he doesnt dip his wick in a paddy field. GET OVER IT.
Hey Paul, yes, obviously you know him. So do I, and he doesn’t have abs, only flab. And if your definition of “cool” is COMPLETELY BATSHIT CRAZY, then yeah, he’s really fucking cool. Also, can you tell me how many testicles he has? Because he claims to have lost one, either that or he got his period at work.
I’m white and if an asian guy messaged me and I wasn’t interested, i would just block. No need for the “prease reave me arone” comment… little tasteless if you ask me. Anyone else find it funny that he doesn’t like asians, but lives in SF? don’t they have tons there?
@Gilles, he does look like Bobby from King of the Hill… maybe he’s eaten too much rice and needs to diet? lol
@Gordan, i nearly fell out of my chair laughing.. if i was 19 feet away.. i may have given him a little nudge over the bridge lol
Lighten up guys, I believe he was trying to add a little humor with that last line. If we can laugh at Russell Peters doing an imitation of a Chinese, I’m sure we can look past this.
I am filipino and this comment is nothing compared to what I’ve seen and heard out there. Obviously he could of been more mature just by saying “Not into Asians”.
BJC- BULLSHIT!! Despite the vast majority of guys on my grindr being latin or white, nearly 100% of the harassing wont-take-no-for-an-answer guys are Asian. Its not racist, its a fact. I can’t post my profile on here or I would. If ur in NYC maybe u can find me. I’m very average and I’m sure people could pick apart my flaws in a cruel way but I’ve had guys tell me they’re not into white guys. Its not a big deal.
Despite the vast majority of guys on my grindr being latin or white, nearly 100% of the harassing wont-take-no-for-an-answer guys are Asian.
— this dude is in SF. Majority are Asians, of course the chances most of the guys are going to message him are Asians. Unfortunately, he is racist. He is not attracted to Asians simply because of Asian. Race filtration is Racist no matter how you want to justify it as a personal preference. Stop spewing your faux white privilege liberal BS.
It seems to me the race that gets the most “not into” posts is Asian. Not sure exactly why that is. I live in the LA area in the San Gabriel Valley. There is a very large Asian population here. I’m Latino and have been messaged by all different races. Most of the Asian guys I have met have been very friendly, polite, intelligent and sweet.
According to some the comments here, some of you have had negative experiences with Asian guys who harassed you. I’m wondering if English was a second language to some of these men? It seems to me that a simple “I’m not interested” would be easily understood and discourage any further messaging. I don’t understand the problem of “harassing wont-take-no-for-an-answer” guys. As soon as you block them, they can’t message you anymore.
Gentlemen, your racial preferences are your business. But if you claim to be annoyed by persistent messages, the solution is in your hands. Block ’em and forget ’em. Before you complain, use your head and make sure you’ve exhausted all of your options first.
It’s true, i have to agree with readycarlos on that one. It seems like everywhere you go, whether it’s Grindr, craigslist or manhunt, majority of the “not intos” or “No ___” are towards Asians. But that’s not all. To add insult to the injury, it’s usually followed by “no fats, no fems” as well.
To all the guys who don’t find something wrong with this, it’s really sad to see how you can justify this by saying that it’s just preference. It’s not. It’s hurtful. As an Asian man, it bothers me. How is this different from the past, down in the south, where african americans were segregated from the caucasians?! How is NO ASIANS different?
And to the guys who keeps insisting that it’s asian guys who are the most annoying and persistant, who won’t take no for an answer and would message over and over again. How dare you bunch me into that catagory. It’s all individualized and clearly, not a race factor. I can go on and on about this but i feel like it’s a tired subject and i’m sick of constantly having to stand my ground and defend my own race for myself. F’you for putting me in that position. Peace!
cutehunkywes you are a total f**king racist douche. what makes you feel so good for being white? why should asians just wait for white guys to offer them sex or to mercy on them?huh?
This guy could have stated his preference with more tact, but, after a while, tact just won’t cut it, if what the guys who have been deluged by Asian men are correct. Been there. Not with Asians, of course, as I am a black man, and they filter us out…thank God. I used to really adore Asian men(had some lovely times)until I saw their behavior on sites like this, and my buddy’s father, who lives in SF, tells me of their behavior towards other people of color…
Ah! So that’s the deal with you. Self-hurt and projection. At long last, I’ve now acquired a somewhat better understanding of you:
(If I’m interpreting you correctly)
You’re a man of color, who’s been rejected for being Black, and sooner or later you learned to be desensitized to it. Your coping mechanism is to then see issues in another race, who so happen to perfectly be the same kind of nuisance according to serendipitously agreeing testimonies of different people. (Heh, you, your friend AND your friend’s father all share the same horrible experience of the annoying Asians.)
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There comes a time in a person’s life when we all need to grow up just a little. Right?
As far as Asians being annoying persistent and not taking no for an answer, I’m guessing racial bigots are simply annoyed that Asians regularly hit them up. Individual Asians probably don’t actually persist ongoingly, but the fact that multiple different ones of them hit up annoys these racial bigots so much, it gives some kind of daft illusion that the same ones keep hitting them up.
I’m guessing “Asians all look alike” had something to do with it.
I went out with this guy. This is actually the nicest his grindr ever was. He was the epitome of douche
Haha he’s funny & cute.
What an ass. I chatted with him. Reading THIS profile forever changed how I address what I am or am not looking for in my online profiles. How insensitive.
Met him once. Was a total ass and a lot fatter than that picture.
Pathetic… Boo hoo white man don’t rike me…
Hm he can challenge Alexandra Wallace on the level of insensitiveness…. Definitely not a pleasant being….
Thank you, thank you, thank you to whoever created this site. Glad someone took on the task of pointing out the douchiness of Grindr guys!
There is nothing wrong with this, people are born with attraction to a certain look or type it’s not a preference, he can’t help the fact that he is not attracted to Asians , it’s like saying that being gas is a choice, this is not racism.
I dont use grindr, but if someone talks to you and he is not your type, cannot you just not reply or block him, just as if he would do with an ugly white male?
I mean, you can select what you like without looking like a total racist asshole
Wow! You honestly don’t think there is nothing wrong with saying “prease reave me arone.” That tells us as much about you as it does about this douche. Hope you’re not on Grindr ’cause you just might end up on this site.
His “douchery” isn’t in the form of his preference. It’s in the way he communicates it. In using a stereotypical, racist accent of an Asian person, he is perpetuating racism.
I don’t find offence in the fact that he doesn’t find Asians sexually attractive, because neither do I (and I bet a lot of Asians wouldn’t find me attractive either!).
What I do find offensive is the “prease reave me arone” comment. There’s really no place for that kind of thing these days, it’s not topical and it’s not funny.
@dan: hey moron, it’s one thing to say that you have a preference against asians, but it’s racist for you to say “prease reave me arone”
This guy is hilarious. he should do stand up. He’s cute too.
Dan is trying to legitimize his own racism because he likely feels the same way. Sad.
someone should post an asian boy saying he doesn’t like anyone but whiteboys… the guy has a prejudice, he’s not stopping asians from dating, if they so chose, no a big deal, move on… is it bad that “prease reave me arone” reminded me of the team America movie? 😐
@theBrad: Someone did post an Asian boy saying he only likes what guys (http://www.douchebagsofgrindr.com/2011/07/massively-lolzworthy-douche/).
I think you miss the point. Who cares who he fucks? But if you’re gonna be an asshole about it by stating your preferences in a way that is dismissive, derogatory or nasty to other people, then you deserve all the shit you get.
If it were me, I’d just punch the smug fucker in the face if he said something like that to me. And then, yeah, no big deal, I’d move on.
asians are not attracted to slobs.. so don’t worry
I sent in this picture — I captured it probably two years ago and saved it hoping that one day a website like this would exist. He’s in San Francisco (or was then). What a phenomenal douche.
He was only 19 feet away – you should have just walked over and pushed him off the bridge.
HILARIOUS!
This guy was my roomie, and he IS a major douche.
He 1st of all took the “reave me arone” from Chelsea Lately, so he isn’t a comedian or original.
2nd. He looks like Bobby Hill from “King of The Hill” so he should be lucky anyone would ever consider trying to find his penis under all that fat lol
I am the first to argue that you cant control who you are attracted to and this often times leads to the exclusion of certain ethnicities- but wow. This guy is a racist douche.
Honestly why would you even bother advertising your lack of interest in an ethnicity on Grindr anyways? If you aren’t into them then simply don’t answer when they text you “hi”. They will get the hint.
To go and put “not into blacks/asians/whites/whatever” is a little rude- but it’s not really douchey to me. To do it with a racist affectation to your text? THAT is douchey.
I dislike Asians too.
You dislike Asians or you’re not attracted to Asians? Those are very different statements. The first is racist. The second is a preference.
So he lives in SF because…?
Curtis since u dislike Asians too I think you should immediately submit your photo to this site because you are, sadly, Queen Douche
LOL, I totally know this douche. Used to work with him, until everyone figured out he was a pathological liar. Made up all these stories like he had ball cancer and was in med school and law school at the same time, and his parents died on like 3 separate occasions. Complete nutjob as well as a douchebag. Stay far, far away.
Oh my! Seems like a dramatic queen in real life with all the dramas.
He is just fat, bitter and pathetic. I pray to Lady gaga for him!
He has a really small dick! I mean really really small!
Was he cut?
He is way fatter in person! And he needs to use a little more soap down there before going on a date! Pee-uuuuu!!!
I think he’s hilarious!!
oh my gosh. Totally have heard of this guy. He is legitimately crazy! Clingy and a slob! Stay Away SF
Lol I agree with the dude. The Asian persuasion gets on my nerve too. Especially the damn Indians. HOWEVER if they contact me I just tell them straight forward not into Asians and end it right there. So does that make me a douche?
Yes. You’re a douche AND you’re racist. Glad to clear that up for you.
So the fact i don’t find asians attractive makes me racists also? No thanks!
I’m Asian, and I don’t think that makes you a douche or rascist. I think that’s legit, if you aren’t attracted… but uh, reave me arone? That’s douchey and maybe a little racist.
What’s wrong with these douchebags? If a White guy they aren’t attracted to sends them a message they either ignore them or block them but if an Asian or Indian messages them they go psycho. Pathetic
I go nuts on anyone I am not interested in and they don’t take the polite let down regardless of race thank you
LOL i met him he was a total rice queen, this must be the consequence of repeated rejection
He’s chubby!!
Gregg u already admitted ur a douche with ur first comment. Every subsequent comment confirms it.
Sorry, but I totally agree with this guy on his profile. Ever think of why would anyone be that specific on their profile?? It’s because there are so many slutty and desperate asians hitting on and messaging him. Disgrace to the gay asian community. PLEASE STOP FLOOD-MESSAGING WHITE GUYS!!! THEY WILL MESSAGE YOU IF THEY ARE INTERESTED.
So… you will be sending your image in tomorrow?
HAHAHAHA that’s Hilarious!
I think this is hilarious and I totally understand where he’s coming from. Not all but most Asians are persistent to the point of being harassing and can’t take a hint. He’s probably sick of being bothered.
Hes in sf, the major minority there are Asian. -_-
douche’s making white people look bad, very very bad. even though i’m sticky i’d never post anything like that against any race, it’s stupid, and does nothing good.
Spend enough time on grindr and you realise you get “flood messaged” by a lot of difference races. So singling out Asians is simply pathetic. Andy and “cutehunkywes” are only showing their own disgusting prejudice and ignorance. Send ur own profiles in boys so we can flame them as well ! DOUCHEBAGS
I like how all the guys who CLAIM they dated and/or know him say he’s chubby or whatever. fact is HE ISNT. If you want i’ll happily post a pic of his abs. and if you think I dont know him he has a dog whose name begins with P and end in S.
I met him on Grindr. we never hooked up. we’re friends. he’s a F*CKING COOL GUY. So he doesnt dip his wick in a paddy field. GET OVER IT.
Hey Paul, yes, obviously you know him. So do I, and he doesn’t have abs, only flab. And if your definition of “cool” is COMPLETELY BATSHIT CRAZY, then yeah, he’s really fucking cool. Also, can you tell me how many testicles he has? Because he claims to have lost one, either that or he got his period at work.
I’m white and if an asian guy messaged me and I wasn’t interested, i would just block. No need for the “prease reave me arone” comment… little tasteless if you ask me. Anyone else find it funny that he doesn’t like asians, but lives in SF? don’t they have tons there?
@Gilles, he does look like Bobby from King of the Hill… maybe he’s eaten too much rice and needs to diet? lol
@Gordan, i nearly fell out of my chair laughing.. if i was 19 feet away.. i may have given him a little nudge over the bridge lol
But Asians love dog… 😉
Lighten up guys, I believe he was trying to add a little humor with that last line. If we can laugh at Russell Peters doing an imitation of a Chinese, I’m sure we can look past this.
I am filipino and this comment is nothing compared to what I’ve seen and heard out there. Obviously he could of been more mature just by saying “Not into Asians”.
BJC- BULLSHIT!! Despite the vast majority of guys on my grindr being latin or white, nearly 100% of the harassing wont-take-no-for-an-answer guys are Asian. Its not racist, its a fact. I can’t post my profile on here or I would. If ur in NYC maybe u can find me. I’m very average and I’m sure people could pick apart my flaws in a cruel way but I’ve had guys tell me they’re not into white guys. Its not a big deal.
Despite the vast majority of guys on my grindr being latin or white, nearly 100% of the harassing wont-take-no-for-an-answer guys are Asian.
— this dude is in SF. Majority are Asians, of course the chances most of the guys are going to message him are Asians. Unfortunately, he is racist. He is not attracted to Asians simply because of Asian. Race filtration is Racist no matter how you want to justify it as a personal preference. Stop spewing your faux white privilege liberal BS.
So Tripes by your logic filtering out women is sexist. and do u know what liberal means?
This guy is UGLY.
It seems to me the race that gets the most “not into” posts is Asian. Not sure exactly why that is. I live in the LA area in the San Gabriel Valley. There is a very large Asian population here. I’m Latino and have been messaged by all different races. Most of the Asian guys I have met have been very friendly, polite, intelligent and sweet.
According to some the comments here, some of you have had negative experiences with Asian guys who harassed you. I’m wondering if English was a second language to some of these men? It seems to me that a simple “I’m not interested” would be easily understood and discourage any further messaging. I don’t understand the problem of “harassing wont-take-no-for-an-answer” guys. As soon as you block them, they can’t message you anymore.
Gentlemen, your racial preferences are your business. But if you claim to be annoyed by persistent messages, the solution is in your hands. Block ’em and forget ’em. Before you complain, use your head and make sure you’ve exhausted all of your options first.
It’s true, i have to agree with readycarlos on that one. It seems like everywhere you go, whether it’s Grindr, craigslist or manhunt, majority of the “not intos” or “No ___” are towards Asians. But that’s not all. To add insult to the injury, it’s usually followed by “no fats, no fems” as well.
To all the guys who don’t find something wrong with this, it’s really sad to see how you can justify this by saying that it’s just preference. It’s not. It’s hurtful. As an Asian man, it bothers me. How is this different from the past, down in the south, where african americans were segregated from the caucasians?! How is NO ASIANS different?
And to the guys who keeps insisting that it’s asian guys who are the most annoying and persistant, who won’t take no for an answer and would message over and over again. How dare you bunch me into that catagory. It’s all individualized and clearly, not a race factor. I can go on and on about this but i feel like it’s a tired subject and i’m sick of constantly having to stand my ground and defend my own race for myself. F’you for putting me in that position. Peace!
At least Bobby from King of the Hill liked asians…specifically Laotion. This guy, hes just a douche period.
cutehunkywes you are a total f**king racist douche. what makes you feel so good for being white? why should asians just wait for white guys to offer them sex or to mercy on them?huh?
This guy could have stated his preference with more tact, but, after a while, tact just won’t cut it, if what the guys who have been deluged by Asian men are correct. Been there. Not with Asians, of course, as I am a black man, and they filter us out…thank God. I used to really adore Asian men(had some lovely times)until I saw their behavior on sites like this, and my buddy’s father, who lives in SF, tells me of their behavior towards other people of color…
@Adam
Ah! So that’s the deal with you. Self-hurt and projection. At long last, I’ve now acquired a somewhat better understanding of you:
(If I’m interpreting you correctly)
You’re a man of color, who’s been rejected for being Black, and sooner or later you learned to be desensitized to it. Your coping mechanism is to then see issues in another race, who so happen to perfectly be the same kind of nuisance according to serendipitously agreeing testimonies of different people. (Heh, you, your friend AND your friend’s father all share the same horrible experience of the annoying Asians.)
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There comes a time in a person’s life when we all need to grow up just a little. Right?
As far as Asians being annoying persistent and not taking no for an answer, I’m guessing racial bigots are simply annoyed that Asians regularly hit them up. Individual Asians probably don’t actually persist ongoingly, but the fact that multiple different ones of them hit up annoys these racial bigots so much, it gives some kind of daft illusion that the same ones keep hitting them up.
I’m guessing “Asians all look alike” had something to do with it.
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